Is it ever a good idea to have sex with a friend?

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i have this cute friend , we kinda like each other, and a week ago she mentioned "friends with benefits" concept to me.

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Based on 29 votes (21 yes)
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  • Elroy7141
    2 years ago

    Personally I don’t see anything wrong with casual sex with anyone. It’s sex, we all like it we all want it so let’s just do it. Man or woman or family whatever. As long as it’s consensual and nobody’s getting hurt who cares. I’m even happy for my girl to have sex with other guys as long as it is just sex and I’m still getting my share lol

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    • Curiouskitten444
      2 years ago

      What do you mean “man or woman or ‘family’”

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      • Elroy7141
        2 years ago

        “Man or woman” as in I don’t see anything wrong with having sex with either if someone wants too. And “family” as in I don’t see anything wrong with two family members having sex with each other as long as it’s consensual and it is just sex

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    2 years ago

    Unless you think it'll turn into a relationship, having sex with a friend can permanently ruin a friendship

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  • LornaMae
    2 years ago

    Never is. Been there, done that. Multiple times. Lost a bunch of friends.

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    • 1WeirdGuy
      2 years ago

      Whats some of the scenerios that happen that make it not work?

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      • LornaMae
        2 years ago

        No specific 'scenerios' to comment on... a friend be a friend. Either one will catch feelings and then it's done.

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    • Pilum
      2 years ago

      Aw :( I worry about that.

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      • LornaMae
        2 years ago

        You OP, Pilum? If you are, just gauge how good of a friend it is you're considering getting intimate with and if you're willing to give up the friendship,or if it could lead to a relationship...

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        • Pilum
          2 years ago

          Nah I'm not op. Thank you though. It hasn't really worked out great for me in the past either lol

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          • LornaMae
            2 years ago

            I don't think it'll ever really work. If the friend is expendable then it's easy to decide! Hahaha

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  • SwickDinging
    2 years ago

    Depends. It might turn into relationship, or it might ruin the friendship.

    As long as you both go into it knowing that it could change things between you, I see nothing wrong with it.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Just do it.

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  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    I think one of the issues with having a friend with benefits is who/when/why it ends and how will the other person take it.

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    You ca, but be prepared for it to complicate your relationship. Sex always does.

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  • jethro
    2 years ago

    It's OK as long as one does not get carried away and get jealous. If you truly want just a friend with benefits, then it is not meant to be a relationship. If you want a relationship, there is nothing wrong in having a relationship that start out as a friendship.

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  • jrbsportz
    2 years ago

    Dude you single an she single?Nothing wrong with friends with benefits.sound like she into it so go for it if anything it just makes you closer together who knows it could be more if you wanted!!just saying

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