Is it n am 50 but won't have a serious relationship with anyone over 25?
Is it Normal i am 50 but won't have a serious relationship with anyone over 25?
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Is it Normal i am 50 but won't have a serious relationship with anyone over 25?
To start this off I'm in my mid 60's - and believe I understand some things related to this issue.
I consider it a bit unusual; but, not necessarily abnormal.
The question is why? What are you looking for in a partner?
I'll admit that by my late 40's it seemed that most of the available ladies my age were dull and had lost interest in men in general. They had no dreams or goals, they had no vitality, and they felt that they had been burned badly by men in their lives and wanted nothing seriously to do with another. There were few exceptions to that among the ones I met.
Now certainly younger ladies (especially below 25) certainly have those dreams and goals, vitality and excitement, and most certainly enjoy men and sex.
However; are they an actual match for what you really want in a long term partner?
In general young ladies under 30 are more likely to be in the experimentation and fun stage of their lives instead of having real goals and expectations; and what you are really looking for is someone who has similar long term life goals and expectations as you have (or ones you can accept and support if different than yours).
What I found myself was that if I looked in different places that there were older ladies closer to my age that indeed still had dreams and goals, and enjoyed fun and sex with a man. Some of them look nice as well.
What are your dreams, goals, and life expectations? What can you offer a long term lady partner?
What kind of activities do you enjoy. There are many activity groups - especially for people 50 and older. I suggest that you find some and see who you meet and make friends with.
Now you may meet the rare under 25 year old where your long term dreams, goals, and expectations match - and you get a long term (likely life long for you) partner.
That is more likely with ladies in their 30's and older though as they tend to have gotten past the experimentation and fun stage of their life. I also found a number of them in their 40's, 50's and even 60's or older.
Once I figured out what I wanted (other than fun and sex) I had my opportunities with ladies well above 30. I met my the lady who became my wife in the summer of 2011 online (she was in Ukraine, and 6 years younger than I), and we were married in spring 2012. We love each other very much and I have more fulfilling activities, cuddling, fun, and sex with her than with any of the others in my life. I of course have other friends, as does she.
Think about what it is that you want long term and what kind of person you want to spend your elder days with. Someone much younger is likely to leave you when you decline - unless you have noticeable wealth.
I wish you the best...
When I was a young woman in my twenties it always grossed me out when significantly older men hit on me.