Is it normal a guy friend wants me to send a pic of my body?

So I have a friend who was kinda but not kinda close in middle school in the USA. I left that school and moved to other country two years ago. Few days ago he suddenly sent a snap that he wants to talk to me and he confessed to me that he had a huge crush on me at that time and he still does.. I said I don't know about getting in relationships (cuz we live far away). After he wanted to play truth or dare game with me and after few rounds, he asked me to send my ass pic. I said that was over the line and I'm kinda mad at you. And that made me dont want to talk to him. Is it normal? By the way, excuse my English. English is not my first language.

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40% Normal
Based on 35 votes (14 yes)
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Comments ( 24 )
  • leah-beth1997

    If you don't want to do it say no.

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  • shuggy-chan

    Don't send anything you wouldn't want your parents see

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  • He's a creep. Totally avoid all contact with him.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Your so called friend is probably just a creepy perv. You were totally right to be angry with him for his stupid, selfish request. Honestly, at this point it would probably be best for you to sever ties with this guy, because he's not a real friend. If he really liked you, and cared for you he wouldn't be as disrespectful as he's been. You're not into him anyway, so just forget about his jerk-wad ass and move on with your life.

    I'm not trying to make this about me or anything, but you're certainly not alone on this bullshit. I had a very dear, straight, male best friend for 12 years when I was younger. Unfortunately, one day he told me what he wanted to do me on the phone despite the fact that I had always made it clear that we would never be more than platonic friends. I was actually married to my first ex-husband at the time so my so called male friend was not only disrespecting me, but disrespecting my spouse as well. I no longer felt comfortable around my friend, and I had to let him go. He said he was just joking, but the trust was gone.

    I wish you all the best!

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    • redrainbow22

      Thats what I was thinking, just sounds like a perv

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  • Nickvey

    its normal if you are Bill Clinton or Anthony weiner or that DNC guy polisky

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  • Nastynate

    Sounds like your just a foreign tease.

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  • KiwiWisdom

    Having boundaries is a good thing. You said in your post, "That's over the line." It's important to be comfortable with yourself and the people you spend time with.

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  • hcysplihp

    The way I see it is, it's okay to either want to send pics or not, but since you didn't want to send them you did the right thing. If he crossed a line with you, you have every right to say so.

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  • redrainbow22

    Sounds like a perv

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  • RandomNumbers

    It's kind of normal for guys to ask female friends nude pics were live. Mostly is just a joke. It is NOT NORMAL, however, to girls actually send them the pics

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  • godhatesfidgetspinners

    Heaven > SInning

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    • godhatesfidgetspinners

      ^^^^^^^ this is so true

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      • godhatesfidgetspinners

        Ill second that

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        • godhatesfidgetspinners

          no disagreement here

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          • godhatesfidgetspinners

            did you just assume my GENDER

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  • IcecreamDogs

    Don't send any pics to him. If you're wondering if it's normal, chances are you're having mixed feelings and this guy is a no-no. Look, he played something as childish as "Truth-or-Dare" with you. And asking for an ass pic from that? It's like he's testing what type of girl you are. So don't send him anything. So, yeah... No, I don't really think he likes you. He'll like you today, but later, poof, he's gone. And you already told him he is crossing your boundaries. He is crossing the line you didn't want him to. Stop talking to a guy that isn't worth talking to. If anything, I just think he makes you uncomfortable. So don't seek help from other strangers from the internet on how you're not so sure of something... Like this. Geez. Don't be sending pics of something so intimate to someone you've long since seen. Gurl, get it in your mind that... He's not worth the chase. Or the worry. Or the send. Just don't do it.

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  • unseriousness

    You were right for getting mad. How did he respond to that? You should give him a straight yes or no so that you're not giving him false hope.

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    • eoddl1245

      I said no clearly to him. And he said he's sorry

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