Is it normal afraid of going to wedding enemy will be there

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My best friend wants me to come to her wedding. She is a great person and I don't want to hurt her or mess up her wedding.I was all excited until I found out she is inviting her other best friend sherri and my ex husband. The four of us used to be friends all through school into adulthood until sherri slept with my ex husband. I was pregnant at the time and ended up having a stillbirth right after that. I retaliated and got sherri fired from her job and had someone put sugar in her gas tank. This was so long ago I should be over it and I am not. I should be happy that I am successful and they are both fat and unemployed, but I know they are going to come over and act ignorant and harass me. I don't want to start drinking again, because I have had a huge problem with alcohol in the past.I promised my family I would keep that promise. I want to get through this day without stooping to sherri and the ex's level any thoughts?

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Based on 11 votes (8 yes)
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  • shuggy-chan
    8 years ago

    Just go and don't worry about them. This is about your friend getting married, not about people you have a history with. Just focus on that, and if they try to rope you into some shit just ignore it. It ain't no thing but a chicken wing

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago

      There you go with the cheesy lines. Chin up buttercup.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    So just don't stoop to their level? Go to the wedding and avoid/ignore them. If you have to interact with them just be an adult.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago

    Normal to feel weird about it but just show up looking awesome and happy and talk with people you actually like.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Attend the ceremony, and then slip out the back.

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  • Holzman_67
    8 years ago

    Hmm I'm not really sure about this one leave it with me I'll give it some thought over the next couple of weeks and I will get back to you

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