Is it normal as a 30 something to act this way ?

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I am a 30 something female gym trainer , that my mother passed away a few months back , the thing is i didn't cry or felt so bad , i go to work and continue my life ,as if nothing happened , since i've got loads of fans on my face book fan page , then i know that i have alot of people that love me , which compensate on my mother's absense .I am immature yet disguise that in acting mature at times , i am weak but i hold my tears in giving a stong image . I gossip alot about girls , even my friends, and it's dirty gossip , make fun of girls infront of other girls, they find it cute (forgetting that i am 30 something) not a teenager like them. A girl i liked used to always come to the gym, it's been months and months almsot a year since i ever saw her, yet i don't ask about her , even on facebook i don't send her a msg asking about her even though she asked about me .I am selfish and mean , i used to be a tomboy , at 30 something , meaning don't wear a dress and don't like girly girls , but now i wear skirts , dressess and accessories , people say that i am a homosexual , since my actions and my looks seem so , but i like guys and like girls as well . Is it normal for me to act this way ?

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  • hardcandy
    12 years ago

    People have different coping skills. You're bisexual, not homosexual. And you have a "butch" profession (as do I). I'm 30-something and still gossip, never wear skirts or heels, am extremely immature and have selfish tendencies. Females are all bitches, some just hide it better than others.

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  • kitkatbar
    12 years ago

    I think you are making excuses for not growing up, try growing up, that begins with coping in your case. Weak people are the ones who just pretend to be strong on the outside.

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  • pansyfugufish
    12 years ago

    I have a feminine profession and I dress manly. How you dress is an outward expression of something inward. I never gossip... I might be more popular if i did. If you are afraid of appearing weak, why not cry in the shower. I think I'll go cry in the shower right now.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    Homosapiens..... Homos everybody is

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  • Rhuarc
    12 years ago

    Honestly buy a gun, put it in your mouth, and pull the trigger. You are the scum of the earth and should be purged by fire. Or you can grow up and act like you should. But I don't see that changing you are already to set in your ways. So yeah gtfo.

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