Is it normal because i'm always in my bedroom

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Am I selfish because I have anxiety and Its hard for me to be around a lot of people and I feel funny when a certain person that I live with comes around like he scares me and I feel like something is going to happen so when it gets crowded or that person comes around I'll go to my roombecause thats where I feel safe at. Now the people that I'm staying with I over heard them talking to my husband they're trying to say that I'm selfish and that I don't love him and I'm not deserving of any love and then me and my husband have been together for 6 years now and he knows me and how bad my anxiety is but you're siding with them and then if I know someone has really bad anxiety issues I'm not gonna constantly all day it's like extremely loud and slamming and all kinds of wired noises all through out the day then my husband bust my door off the hindge so I can't close it and I have no privacy. Like I just feel like nobody loves me or cares and then that's not the half of it. What should I do

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Busted the door off the hinges? That sounds abusive, very unpleasant!

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  • LloydAsher
    2 years ago

    Try to leave your safe space every once and a while. From your post even your safe space doesnt sound safe. If you can drive I would take a drive around the country side. Very peaceful and nothing unexpected should happen.

    As for relationship problems it seems that your husband loves you. If you are unwilling to get out of your room that's a YOU limitation not a HIM limitation. Try to improve your standing with the people you are LIVING with. They have the perception that you arent giving anything. Change that perception.

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    • CalliesFinest29
      2 years ago

      How can I change that what do I do. It's getting worse now 2 of my room mates all day keep repeating the same things outside my bedroom door all day like my relationship is ending and I'm not worthy of any love and it's worsening and that they're not gonna stop until I come out my room and it's really messing with my mental health

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