Is it normal can't move on/won't

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I've been dating this girl for a few months since her boyfriend broke up with her and we're exclusive, as far as i know, but when I say I want to be her boyfriend she says she can't and she isnt ready. She makes up stories (i tried to kill myself, I got in a car accident, I was mugged) all the time to get my attention when she really doesn't need to, she refuses to make our relationship known to anyone but us and it really worries me (she's bubbly and almost flirty with most guys but she texts me constantly and we're always in touch there aren't many moments in the day where we arent talking)

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17% Normal
Based on 35 votes (6 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Dump her, she's probably bat shit crazy or something.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      Omg I was muggled, anyway, does these pants make my butt look big

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        I dunno, turn around and let me see your booty.

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        • shuggy-chan
          10 years ago

          *twerts it*xD

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            Drop it like it's hot!

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    "She makes up stories (i tried to kill myself, I got in a car accident, I was mugged) all the time to get my attention when she really doesn't need to"

    I would not want to be this person's boyfriend.

    Give her time to get over him. It doesn't happen overnight. It's quite possible it never will - she's rejected you many times, after all - so don't get your hopes up.

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  • MarianasTrench4
    10 years ago

    Dude, you're the B Team!
    Listen to B Team by Marianas Trench and then tell me your thoughts on the song.

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    • Rebington
      10 years ago

      That's...oddly specific

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      • MarianasTrench4
        10 years ago

        I think it's the perfect song for the situation.

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  • rastax336
    10 years ago

    Dont worry bro... im do the samething... i know im being use for company. But i still enjoy spending time with her. Plus i feel more like myself when im with her. I just have no feelings to date her

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  • wallnuts!
    10 years ago

    Shes using you

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    Holy Cow! What a nutzo!

    There are plenty of other fish out there, PLEASE throw this one back.

    She is extremely needy and has no boundaries. She will hurt you bad.

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  • Sinep
    10 years ago

    Stay away from her.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Sounds like you are going to get hurt by this one if you get too deeply into her. Take the relationship at face value and do not invest any more of yourself into it than she does.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    It's your choice whether you stick around or not.

    At least you are aware she's only using you to pass the time since she doesn't feel as lonely when you're always available. As soon as she finds a new boyfriend, she'll stop texting and the choice will be made for you. But, I think it's perfectly normal to cling for as long as possible, always hoping she'll see you the same way you see her.

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