Is it normal for a boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever to ignore you?

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My girlfriend, who I've known for about two years but have been dating for a few months now, just stopped talking to me about two weeks ago. I decided not to ask about it since I want to respect her privacy, but I'm getting worried.

Whenever I tried to talk to her before that she just shut down anything I offered to make her feel better.

Basically what I'm asking, should I be worried about this?

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Based on 18 votes (2 yes)
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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    Shes been ghosting you for TWO WEEKS?
    No man thats not normal at all, that's an extremely cowardly way of breaking up.

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  • lolman787
    1 year ago

    try not to get rude [maybe its her bad days]...

    smoothly ask "is there a problem thats hurting you, what is it"

    [!] don't let her leave without answering it.

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  • Somenormie
    1 year ago

    Maybe it's for the best that you find another one if she constantly does this. She isn't a true girlfriend in any way.

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  • InsecureSandwich
    1 year ago

    Update, she wrote a 8-paragraph message via text, blocked me everywhere, and literally moved to california. Not sure how to feel about this

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  • Nononoyes
    1 year ago

    Have you checked to make sure she is still alive?

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  • Ihidabody
    1 year ago

    Maybe you're annoying.

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    • InsecureSandwich
      1 year ago

      Yeah i started to think that...

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  • GaelicPotato
    1 year ago

    Sorry to break it to ya chief, but she ain't your girlfriend no more.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    No, it's not normal to just ghost someone. Did you two fight a lot?

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    • InsecureSandwich
      1 year ago

      Not really, sometimes she'd send me really long messages about how she wasnt good enough for me tho

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  • Tommythecaty
    1 year ago

    Is it normal for your girlfriend to ignore you for two weeks?

    No, no it is not.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    You should start looking for another girlfriend and never answer her again if she messages you

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    • InsecureSandwich
      1 year ago

      but i don't wanna be rude, what if she just needs some time alone or something?

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      • thepuppet
        1 year ago

        2 weeks is too long

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        1 year ago

        Theres really not many excuses for this type of behaviour. Ghost her back and move on.

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      • MonsteraDeliciosa
        1 year ago

        Awwwn, you sound like a super sweet sandwich that anyone would be lucky to have for lunch, dinner, or breakfast! But I think the girlfriend is brunching elsewhere... :/

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        1 year ago

        Then you can be a pushover and she will only contact you when she needs something because shes not interested in you. Its the unfortunate truth.

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