Is it normal for a female to be male chauvinist?

I think you should do whatever makes you happy. If you're happy living in your designated gender role that's great. I'm sure not everyone has the same idea of "privileges" as you do, but if you feel privileged as you are then that's great.

I think that's very sexist towards men. Men are stupid to want women in the kitchen. Because that makes women the real kings of the house. Imagine, being at home all the time chillaxing. While the men are stuck being slaves and working hard for money. Both genders are equal. And they'll stay equal. Sorry sexist fucks. And I'm talking about sexist women here as well ;)

Some women like the idea of not working and taking care of the household. There was this girl in my school's newspaper who wrote a whole article about it. I'd say its your belief and people have to respect it.

I think people should do what's best for their family, period.

I know families in which the man stays at home and the woman works and that works for them. I know families in which the opposite occurs and that works for them and families in which the parents would go insane if they had to spend all day in the house. So they both work, out of willingness or necessity. And that works for them.

I don't think it's a matter of sexism, it's a matter of doing what's best for your family. I think it sucks that our society has turned against being a stay at home mom as a "terrible gender role" and being a SAHM as "not real work". This has hurt a lot of families in the long run as women who want to quit their jobs and be more involved parents fear the criticism they'll face from their friends and family.

I think it says a lot more for the materialism of our society, if anything, that how much money someone makes or their job status determines the way they should be treated or their worth as a person rather than whether or not they are happy and doing right by their family.

This isn't a philosophical position I'm willing to argue. I don't think anyone doing what's best for themselves and by extension as well, their family, deserves to be ridiculed, regardless of their gender.

I could never do the whole gender role thing. I'm too power-hungry.

I understand your point and it makes perfect sense. Feminist ideologies have done more harm than good not only to men but also to women. The fact that you do not subscribe under feminism and similar kinds of non-sense just shows that you are not stupid or brainwashed.

What's with the recent spate of anti-feminist propaganda? Defining feminist as not recognizing women's roles and being anti-male is a bit fucked up. Looks like you haven't come such a "long way baby" after all. That is sad.

I use to be a feminist (I'm a guy) but two things stopped me from wanted to be affiliated with them. One I started believing in gender roles. I think a woman can care of her child in a way that a man just can't, and I believe a father is the best role model for his male children, and sometimes even daughters, both genders nurture and help there children grow emotionally and intellectually. But anywho, the second reason was because I felt that the feminist group that is presented in many facets is too fanatical. The whole idea that men just suck and that they don't need them. I couldn't get behind that. Not just because I'm a man, but because we both need each other. I believe we perfect eachother, not completely, but there is a beautiful balance, and one gender should not cut out the other. Also I hate the constant reaffirmation that men are dumb. That's not true. Our culture is dumb, and men are weak because we dumb ourselves down, just like women do in their own ways, but we are not dumb, only collectively as a species, can we be remarkably foolish at times.

I do believe there are exceptions, I don't like women fighting the war just as much as I don't like men, but I don't feel like it's my right to suggest they can't, I just believe they would be better as caregivers. I think violence has some place in mens hearts, and I would never want to subject a women to it. We should talk sometimes because clearly I have a lot to say on the subject. Sorry for the rambling.

Have a good one.

Get back in the kitchen and make me sandwich.

Well I consider myself an egalitarian rather than a feminist. I believe people should have the options to live in whatever kind of relationship works for them and the same with job opportunities.

I think if most woman knew the history of feminism than they would stay away from that word. The most popular feminist work ever was "The Woman's Room" and it contains a line that says all men are rapists. Also you have feminists constantly referring to an invisible patriarchy conspiracy that runs everything and it really sounds similar to the way white supremacists talk about crazy Jewish conspiracies. I think most women that identify as feminists are actually egalitarian and do not hold the extreme views that are characteristic of feminist doctrine.

Unfortunately normal. Tons of women are sexist against men and don't think twice about it because Feminism isn't about equality, it's about revenge and shaming men for how they've treated women as a whole Over the past 400 years. this whole "rape culture" movement is evidence of it. And men aren't allowed to get all in a toss about it because men aren't supposed to be emotional creatures like women are. So it's almost socially acceptable for people to do things to men that are wrong to do to women. Like sexual harassment for starters. and physical abuse. It's not a social taboo for a woman to hit a man or sexually harass them because "a man should be able to handle it" ? Are you fucking kidding me?! Equality is a two way street. Not something you just take and give as you please. And that's how feminists and a lot of people in general treat it. Like "yeah. I'm all for equal rights for women! Oh wait... It says here I might get drafted into military service, I'm gonna have to pay for dinner sometimes, and change my own oil in my car, move my own stuff when I move, fix my own sink, and ALL the other "man stuff"?!"

I enjoy being out in a submissive female role sometimes. I don't mind being slapped on the ass or told to make a sandwich or something like that. My boyfriend doesn't do it in a demeaning way, and we both love and respect each other. I have a good job and a lot of pride, power, and self respect.