Is it normal for a friend to suddenly have a crush on you?

Hello readers,

By the way, I am a female and so is my friend.
I was with her and we were playing truth or dare and I was dared to run around in my bra, which I did because it was truth or dare, duh(!). When I came back to the real world, I went to grab my top and she snatched it, telling me she’d only give it back if I let her stick a tennis ball down my bra. I swiftly said no and tried to snatch back my top, still in my bra. After chasing round after her, I managed to get it back and put it on but I was slightly dishevelled. I walked away and when we said goodbye I tried to act normal, and I don’t think she realised I was hurt and confused by her actions.

Looking back, I realise she has always been obsessed with my bra and has frequently told me to take it off (as a dare or in a jokey way). And earlier this week she told me I was beautiful, which was unusual for her as she is normally a frequent swearer and is more likely to call me a f*cking b*tch. Earlier this afternoon she also admired my bottom, saying it was curvy and beautiful.

Now, I wonder if she may have an abnormal crush/obsession with me and possibly has an inner lesbian side. By the way I am not a lesbian.

Is this normal?

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  • TheLesbian

    As a lesbian, this is not normal. I think she lusts after you, not loves you in the way she thinks she does. Tell her you are uncomfortable. If she disrespects that request, then she was never a real friend. I know this from experience. Clinginess from her end will only make the rift wider.

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  • peculiar007

    thanks for you advise
    i spoke to her today and she said she'd forgotten it
    she says that about a lot things so maybe she's got a memory problem or maybe she is using it as an excuse?

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  • peculiar007

    plz help me!

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    • JonathanOo

      Yes she likes and is into you. Do you feel the same?

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      • peculiar007

        no i really don't but she's not the kind of person take a hint should i say to her i don't have feelings for her?
        thanks btw

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        • JonathanOo

          Well she might take it poorly and think you hate or really don't care about her. I'm not sure what I'd do since I'm not a girl. I think I'd bevery
          different honestly, she would be allowed to see my bra and body but I'd make it clear I'm not interested in her or anything more.

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          • peculiar007

            but why if she'd never really seen it before( my bra and body)

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            • peculiar007

              and why did you or someone else say it was normal for her to have a crush on me?

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