Is it normal for a guy to

to admit he has feelings for you, but to take at least a day or a few days to reply?
I've been speaking to this guy on Discord for a while who I really like, and I've been crushing on him for a while though didn't say anything. He always acts so friendly to me, always using exclamation marks and emojis, and often compliments me, especially when I showed him photos (he called me cute, pretty, beautiful, sexy and hottie) and is often very flirty in a playful way, but not in a particularly obnoxious or vulgar way; by that I mean he has never made me feel uncomfortable, or pressured into doing something I don't want, and he seems to respect me.
Well about a week ago, we video chatted, which he was eager about doing, and it was then that he confessed that he had feelings for me, as did I. And our conversation turned into a flirty one, a romantic albeit a little sexually charged, cute conversation. He said he looked forward to video chatting again soon. And said he really meant it when he said he is falling in love with me. Also it was easy to read his body language on the video camera, like I got the impression he was very fond of me, and maybe a little nervous, and he even made a kiss at me which was cute.
The only problem is that responses are delayed. Usually he takes at least a day to respond, though occasionally he talks on the same day if we're both online at the same time, which has only happened twice. But now he hasn't replied for about 4 days. I don't want to bother him in case that scares him off or annoys him. I mean he could be busy with studies cause when I chatted to him it looked like he was in some kind of classroom with a whiteboard in the background. But I just worried that it's not normal. I wonder whether he really does like me or not. We're not going out or anything (yet) but it's hard to get to know him properly when our messages are so delayed. This is also the first time I've ever spoken to somebody I actually like in that way, so this is all new and exciting and confusing for me. So is it normal? Or am I just overthinking and worrying too much?
Edit: I should also mention we live in different countries. Which means it's hard to be online at the same time.

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Comments ( 8 )
  • Curiouskitten444

    You need to put a tldr if you want anyone to reply

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  • Ummitsstillme

    Men and women take a long time to read that. A response will take many days

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  • olderdude-xx

    Sometimes a person (guy or gal) needs a day or so to think about something. 4 days is a bit long.

    Although, if they are sick or in the hospital they may have their mind on other things or incapable of responding. This situation is rare - but does happen.

    Thus; I'd not get your expectations up (as its probably not going anywhere fast - if at all), but hold open the possibility that he is very sick or in the hospital and once he recovers he will want to connect with you and progress.

    I wish you the best...

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Its not a good sign if he hasnt responded in 4 days. Its usually an excuse when people say they dont have time. If he wanted to talk he could make time. There's alot of guys out there like this though. Just keep looking.

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    • nah tbh I'm never going to find another guy who's so close to my dream guy. If he's not the one, I will just give up. It's a miracle he came along in the first place, due to how incredibly specific and obscure my taste is. It will be impossible to find another person I like.

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        Don't come on too strong. If you seem like you want them too bad it pushes you away. And you'll find another eventually. I'm sure there's social clubs or reddits you can find to meet them.

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        • really doubt that. Believe me I tried but it's impossible

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          • 1WeirdGuy

            All you can do is learn from it. Never let them know how much you like them until yall are seriously dating.

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