Is it normal for a guy to ask his female friend if she sleeps naked?

The subject of PJs came up and I mentioned that I don't really own PJs. It was at this point that he asked me if I sleep naked. Personally I thought it was odd, but then he said it was a relevant question and it's not he was asking with pervy intentions.

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  • Murun

    It's a relevant question when talking about pyjamas, which you were, and especially so when mentioning you don't own any!

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  • dytrog

    What did you tell him? Noth8ng wrong with sleeping nude.
    And I can see why he asked you. but it was none of his business. Do you sleep nude? LOL.

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  • DuHast

    Well you started it by mentioning that you don't wear PJ's. There was no reason for you to go there if you didn't want to.
    It's a bit of a flirty discussion, but that kind of thing happens with friends all the time (ime), even when the boundaries are pretty clear. It might be flirty, it's not pervy unless he was really pervy about it.

    And I don't know about your friends, but my friends have no problem telling me literally everything, and vice versa - so something like this seems really tame. But then maybe you don't know him that well, I don't know.

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  • RoseIsabella

    How is that a relevant question? I think it's an inappropriate question, because it's really none of his business.

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    • charli.m

      How is it not the most logical conclusion to "I don't have PJs? I'd guess it over wearing anything else. They were discussing it, it's not like he said it out of nowhere.

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      • heckleBucker2

        Since we are on the topic, I will tell you that I sleep nude. Nice to let 'em flop around. But since I am discreet, I will not ask you what you wear to bed.

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        • charli.m

          I wasn't discussing it and don't give a crap what you do at any given point in time. Just like no one else cares. You should be used to this.

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          • heckleBucker2

            Of course. I assume you are used to it too.

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            • charli.m

              Unlike you, I have people who care. I guess that's the difference between someone like me and someone like you who makes an excessive amounts of sock puppet accounts to harrass people online.

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    • rinosaurus_beetle

      it is she said i dont have pj's and the next logical step is nudeitty

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      • dytrog

        I don't wear PJ's and I don't sleep nude. I wear underwear and a t-shirt.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Meh. To me the next logical step would be to tell the person, ,"it's none of your God damn business" or "what difference does it make, what are you writing a book".

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  • Jayemen

    I had this conversation with a petite, hot female business associate/assistant, fairly early on. We got along very well pretty much from day one, and had the sort of comfort level that led to sexual and related talk.

    We were on the way back from a function one night, saying how tired we were, and she said "I cannot wait to get home, strip off everything I have on, and jump into bed..I sleep naked, by the way" she smiled. Told her I usually sleep in my boxers and t-shirt, unless it's hot, then it's boxers only.

    That touched off a fun conversation about "being able to roll over and just have sex, because I'm already naked", having a guy's item protrude through his boxers when rises overnight..All this fun stuff.

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  • Bighohnson

    He was wondering cause he wants to be in bed with u rubing and touching your body to make your pussy wet so he can fuck you guys dont want to always stay in that friend zone make is night ask him to lay in bed with u see wear it gos the guys u keep in the friend zone are the ones that will do anything for u and best over all

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  • Daisychain1

    I think the question is very very normal but sometimes people only ask it inside their own heads.

    I like being asked but mostly don't answer.

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  • Nothing wrong with that.

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  • Francisf

    Firstly your 'male friend' , unless he is gay would like to have sex with you. Before anyone has a go at me I don't mean because of the question but male friends who wouldn't have sex with you given the chance dmmt exist. This is just some fantasy females have .

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