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I have a boyfriend who is somewhat effeminate and has an hourglass figure. People usually make fun of him for having it, and that hurts me. I honestly don't mind that he has one, but, is it normal in the first place?
Check if he has klienfelters. It gives us lovely people feminine traits (not genitals). That or he has a testasterone deficency over a large portion of his adolescence.
It's a nature of assholes to put down someone by pointing out what they deem as flaw. Assholes' opinions for the sake of putting people down shouldn't matter, worthless and shouldn't be taken deeply to heart.
everyone is different and its a shame when you are different people make fun on you. they should remember they are different also and perhaps they should think of how they would feel if they were the object of ridicule.
Fugazi, if you assume a healthy adult man is underweight.
That's because your version of
" normal "
Is actually overweight.
You've fallen victim to marketing.
When you begin to see fat as normal, and fit as " underweight "
You've been duped into mediocrity.
You have seen enough to know that your "boyfriend" is actually not your "girlfriend" ? Unless he is male but on hormones for an upcoming transition ?
If you love him, why are you asking what's normal?
A beer gut, pajamas, sloppy hair, and rude body noises seems normal in most walmarts.
Is that what you'd like better?
If you like him, and he treats you as a lady.
who care about what someone else calls normal...
Unless youre fat, then yea.
Lose weight.
Alot do. Some of the best crossdressers are like that. I naturally kind of had one. With some corset training it got way better. My hips are to skinny though. I need a little plump on them
Maybe see if getting him out more and being more physical helps. I herd steroids can help if it is a hormonal thing.