Is it normal for a married woman to date men with my husbands okay?

You really should have your husband present for one of your sessions with another man. Make sure the man you're having sex with isn't very deep when he ejaculates and then pulls out quickly so your husband can put his mouth on you. The semen will not have had a chance to mix with your juices and should flow into his mouth. The taste will be very different from what he's had before and if the guy cums alot is close to what it tastes like direct from the cock.

My husband and I have had more sex and more often since we began doing this. I agree you must proceed with caution. But it has been great and exciting for us and our marriage. If any of you woman contemplate this.. I can give you advice on how I meet the men. And again... this was entirely my husbands idea. But somehow... being able to reach into the cookie jar with approval was a good thing for me. I really find I have my cake and am eating it too.

I don't know if it's "normal," i.e., statistics, but it happens. My husband is SO turned on and our sex is enhanced if I have sex with another man. Of course, it must be TOTALLY safe sex unless/until very rigorous conditions are met. The absolute BEST sex is when I have sex with my current (other) lover who meets the conditions that allow him to cum in me.

Your husbands gay as shit

My wife of 20 years and I have been doing something very similar. We love it. I love eating her sloppy pussy. Then fucking it.

Well, I don't think it's "normal," but my guess is that more people do this sort of thing than most would guess. My husband allows me to have 2 "friends with benefits," but it was more than a chore to not just find compatible partners, but once done, find those who met acceptable criteria, then get everyone tested.

Going to add to this posting life is about what people enjoy & we all do not enjoy the same
& that ok. We our a couple married 36 years & have enjoy sharing sexual fun our whole married life by inviting another male or female or another couple to join us. We have made some great friends at the same time & our sex life has always been exciting So what is normal for some will always not be for others. Enjoyment between a couple is what really counts & that is normal Its enjoying life together that what makes a great marriage

yes it is. I let my wife do it all the time. She is so sexy. 5'0'',115. 34-d,nice legs, and very attractive. I watch her, and let her go out alone. Men cum in her and i love it. Just can't help it. our marriage is great.

My wife and I started "playing" several years ago, with a guy we were friends with. She has dated several guys, including flying to Florida to have sex with two guys she met online. When local, I always love eating her afterwards.

I would just live her to come home full of cum

I have been married 20 years and started to get turned on about the idea of my wife going on dates and having other men cum in here. She is a bit nervous, but who knows, I might yet be able to talk her into it.

Obviously this is not for everyone and who is anyone on here to judge or criticize so long as NO one is getting hurt or destroyed.

At the start i also began to explore and discovered men sharing GF or Wives. I was surprised how it excited me since i NEVER thought of sharing a GF, my thought process was the traditional never sleep with anyone other then your better half. I was single at the time and was envious of the hubby's and the incredible fantasy fulfilled fun they were having and how i also wanted a HOT wife. Finally i met and married a beautiful sexy woman and one night we began to discuss our wild fantasies and to my amazement she desired 2 men at the same time. I shared how i would love to be part of that. After long grueling selection process lol we found a good candidate and finally the night came. As i witnessed words cannot describe the excitement flowing threw my body as my lovely wife let down her inhibitions and enjoyed.
Her soft moans turned into loud screams of deep pleasure as the night wore on and finally everyone's bodies were spent. I will never forget the first time. She has dated this man a few more times but alas he moved away. My wife and i have not sought out another but we still talk about it and it definitely is a burning desire that still burns within. Luckily for us we set boundaries for all involved and if anyone felt uncomfortable NOTHING was going to happen. I did not pressure my wife and i made it clear to the other gentleman it was all about her she was the main focus. Im not for eating another mans spunk lol its just not for me but ill gladly take my end and with a huge grin on my face. Nothing like Good ole Fashion HOT Sex and yes it also helped our already super charged sex life into a Super NOVA Sex life LOL!
We proceed with CAUTION and never allow desperation to kick in. When the right time, person presents itself again HECK yeah it will happen again one day.

I believe it's completely normal. My wife and I have been married for 18 years now. Being in the military and often separated for extended times we agreed to have an open relationship. Our middle child is the result of me being gone for 8 months. She was dating a Marine who was in town for a few months and we decided that he could stay with her. In return he would take my place keeping you grass cut and other maintenance kept up around the house. It wasn't planned but he got her pregnant and she asked me if she could keep the baby. Another time she dated our next door neighbor while I was gone for a year. He was an older black man and he kept her company while I was gone. Every time I would come home I couldn't tell the difference and our love life was amazing. My best friends brother stayed with her for eight months while I was gone and another time my wife's best friend and I were deployed at the same time. I dated her while her husband lived with my wife and children. Everything went back to normal upon my return. Now that I've been out we still have our separate date nights. Wouldn't change it for the world.

I am married woman and my hubby and I do this but we both have dated and I will say it has improved our sex life a lot I am 41 now and we have been dating for 20 years and has worked well
We both had even had a all nighter . We always tell the other what and where and who we are going with .

My wife and I are in our fifty,s and have a friend who love to take part I our sex sessions. It has given us a nice and exiting sexlife . Both I and our friend are bi and to see us having sex turns my wife on . We hope this arrangement will last a long time . It keep the three of us happy

My wife and I enjoy an open marriage. She dates other men, sometimes I am there to watch her enjoy herself, other times she dates alone and when she gets home has to show me her pussy. We both love this relationship and have been into swinging/sharing for over 8 years, both in our 50's. She has had many men over those years. Most of the time she tells me beofre having sex with them, but other times it is spontaneous and will tell me when she gets home. She does not discriminate regarding color, nationality or age. And like one of the other posters on here our children know and think it is great we are so open. They hope they can find partners that are so open also.
When we swap with other couples or go to swing parties it is enjoyable also. One couple we know well and have swapped with many times has begun the hotwife sessions also and they are really getting into the wife having sex with other men often.
So for those that don't agree with this its fine its not for everyone.

I'm a straight single male I heen with three couples, they were all for the wife's pleasure. The husbands just wanted their wife to be happy. These couples are still together and very happy.

I wouldn't say it's normal but there is noting wrong with it as long as both of you enjoy it and it's OK with you.
On the other hand it is incredibly hot! I wish my wife was into sex enough to want to fuck other men. As it is she's not and as a result 9 years ago I started having sex with other men and at first a few women. I decided men were easier to have casual sex with so now I just have sex with men. Mostly I service other older (my age) married guys. I like cocksucking as much as fucking now.
I think if you love each other, anything that keeps you together is fine.

i encouraged my wife to have sex with other men because it makes her feel more desirable. i could tell, after years of having just sex with me, my wife was feeling less desirable and less interested in having sex. we talked about it and my wife was very agreeable to dating a man for some no strings attached sex. she was worried, like most women, about how it would affect the marriage and how i would feel about her afterwards. i said the only way to find out is to do it and since it was my idea, it should not have any ill effects at all. my advice to her was to feel sexually available. men would see that and hit on her. i said a married woman usually sends the "unavailable" message whether she is aware of it or not. immediately upon adopting the mindset of being "available", my wife's interest in sex increased greatly and we started having sex every day. in less than two weeks men were hitting on her all the time and she finally chose one for a date. she was nervous, but had no intentions of not having sex with him. she said "i gonna get laid...period. i won't let him go home until we have had sex." she came home from that date just glowing. she was pert and bubbly as teenager when she came home. our oldest daughter was still up when she came and said "what got into you mom?" which made the two of us bust out laughing. we have been doing this for 15 years now. my wife counseled our daughter about sex and encouraged her to marry only a man with an open mind and explained how it would benefit her. she set that as a condition for a serious relationship. she is married now and said that they have decided she could date once she got pregnant. my daughter told me how much she respected how give her mom the freedom to explore her sexuality and said i was her hero. this works if both members of the marriage are willing to communicate, put the marriage bond first and be willing to trust the other person's dedication to the marriage.

Some will find it hot. Some wont. I don't care for the eating another man's cum part, but the rest is very hot and pretty common fantasy for us married guys. Normal, probably not, but erotic and fun for some of us, YES.

as long as you are both happy with the decision they why not.

When my wife started dating "real men" it made our sex life great . Watching getting ready for date was such turn on . Then when she came home we too had awesome sex . And those cream pies were the best . It does work for some couples .

Jesus I just read this again and its even
more disgusting the second time. Are you fucking kidding me? Your really asking if either one of you is normal? No not by any means is this normal this is fucking morbid.

If you are a Christian you should know if this is normal or right.

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Open marriages work for some. I on the other hand couldn't do it. No matter how much my man would beg me to. I love my man and am fully attracted to him too much to even want another man. The thought utterly disgusts me honestly. And the thought of him with another woman...well let's just not go there lol.

I really want my wife to do that
Can anyone tell me how i can make her agree

this is extra sex for enjoy life. don't left your poor husband. always you want his right support. i have also similar story. first i dated with co worker and i had sex regular basis. after i will tell all stories to my hus. he also very exciting and he can have good sex with me.
now i have 2 sex affair with others. also i have some close friends. iam enjoying very much. my husband have nothing problem for this. till now he didn't try to watch me. but he asking about this. i had great experience three of them same day. that is my memorable movements. one Sundays after the pub party i finished with first man then i going to home on the way i met my another friend and had sex in car. after reach home before shower had with my hus also. this is in best day of my life.

How long after sex can you still take the other guy? My wife is going out on a date but wont be home for almost an hour after the sex...

I'm in an open marriage right now, but I don't know how much it will evolve or how long we will keep it this way. I've only been with one guy and one woman since my husband and I decided this and even though I have encouraged him to have some fun as well, he hasn't. We're really only doing this because we're long distance right now, but we've also had swinging experiences prior to this decision.
I won't know if this is a wise move or an utter mistake until after the fact, and I'd say that if you and he are happy then it is normal and fine.

I didn't read, it's simply too long. From the title it sounds kind of open marriage, some people are ok with that, others are totally against it. I can't say it's normal though.