Is it normal for a prostitute to ask for your phone number?

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I'm a single man who has just recently come out of an awful, unfulfilling relationship. After the breakup, I started seeing a prostitute to try to feel "normal" again (which is sometimes hard, as I am a high functioning savant). The woman I saw was very kind to me. The second time I saw her, she told me, out of the blue, that she loves me. The third time I saw her, after not seeing her for a couple of weeks, she told me she was very worried about me, asked me for my phone number, and gave me hers, while telling me not to tell her boss! I have since seen this woman outside work, for a coffee near where she lives, and conversation was great, we hugged, we had some silent spots, but we just laughed at each other. She has two children, which is why I'm not willing to encroach upon her personal life too much, and she attends English classes as her written English is poor.

Since I moved, my finances haven't been stellar, and I haven't been able to see her, although I've texted her from time to time to keep in contact. I'm going to try to see her next week, and give her a bit of a break as I never work her hard, I'm very gentle with her, as over coffee she admitted to me her boss harasses her, and she is "very tired" of her job. I may be in a better position in the next few weeks as I am set to start a part time job with an ISP here in my trade as a telecommunications linesman.

I can understand, her telling me not to tell her boss, he might think I'm cutting him out of the deal. However, is it normal for a prostitute you have only seen three times to tell you she was very worried about you and literally demand your phone number so she could know you're alright? After I had paid and showered, those were the first words out of her mouth when she was alone with me - "I was so worried about you when you didn't come back. Please give me your phone number so I can know you're ok!"

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago | pl

    I already know were this is going. You can't turn a ho into a housewife.

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  • sexysonofsam
    9 years ago

    Prostitutes are also real people with real feelings, we all cannot be in total control of our destinies or the world would be a pretty dull place to co-exist.

    I think she obviously has to look out for two children and with little or no education she did the best she could with the talent she had.

    Stop being such a bunch of judgmental pussies and live and let live. If you have nothing nice to say to someone, rather keep your mouth shut!

    How would you feel if it was your daughter involved in this story?

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    Once I dated a man who told me that he had a great love story with a prostitute. The girl would go to work and in the evening join him and he really loved her. Like you he met her when seeking for her services. However he also told me that he knew that it would be nearly impossible to take her away from this life. If you want to live something special with her don't hesitate. But never forget to use protection and don't forget that Pretty Woman is just a film.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Dude, trust me, don't go there.

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  • anti-hero
    9 years ago

    She probably just wants to keep you as a client. She may enjoy your company as well. I think if you stopped paying for sex, she wouldn't come around.

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  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago

    Prostitutes have feelings too. Pun intended.

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    A lot of people seem to forget that these are real people with real emotions just like the rest of us.

    I've met quite a few prostitutes over the years
    (all outside of their work btw)
    One I knew quite well (have lost contact with her now) & she was just a normal person with a house, 2 kids & bills to pay.
    Nobody would be able to tell her profession if she didn't want you to know. I remember I fucking tripped when she told me...

    It is obviously possible for these girls to become attracted to any guy, including a customer, but I would definitely be a little wary as in my experience SOME are manipulative & can be very distrustful of men

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  • iEatZombies_
    9 years ago

    To answer your question, it's qute normal for a prostitute to make the rash decision of exploiting herself to a stranger... it's exactly why she is what she is.
    As for whether you should explore your own feelings for her, well nobody can tell you that. You already know full well what the risks are. She could very well just be looking for a sucker. Of course, the possibility of her actually loving you is plausible. It's more a matter of, is she worth you being vulnerable for her. I'm afraid you won't know that answer unless you try. You could be sorry or grateful. Not a soul on this planet can tell you what's best for you when it comes to this lady except you. Even if she were looking for a sucker, she could still end up in love and loving- or she could be in love and then cheat. There's just no straight line for this. Good luck and listen to yourself.

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  • Boris-G
    9 years ago

    Ok, this was a question of "Is this normal?" Not whether I am going to marry a hoe as you eloquently put it. For the sake of it, we have an acid dropping hoe here banging two blokes at a time at the student accommodation I live at. Yet I think she's a nice person. I added the backstory to give you some feel for what might've precipitated this question, not whether I had feelings or not. Jury is out on that one.

    Can we keep this to the question asked, not whether you think she'd make a good housewife. I know plenty of women who are "Mother of the Year" out in public, and yet they're bitches at home. Do they make good housewives? If this is heading somewhere, can you also predict tomorrow's Lottery results for me too? If I wanted a prediction I know how to get them.

    Many thanks!

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  • alborosie
    9 years ago

    she probably search a way out of her business and sees you as opportunity. I wouldn't go for her, too much trouble!

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  • captblood44
    9 years ago

    it doesn't sound good.

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    Whoa whoa whoa hang on a minute.

    You're a high functioning savant?

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    • Boris-G
      9 years ago

      That's what I said. I think in math, and study cybernetics/ mechatronics.

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      • disthing
        9 years ago

        But you're autistic, or have some other mental disability?

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        • Boris-G
          9 years ago

          They know I'm on the spectrum, albeit in an extreme way.

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          • disthing
            9 years ago

            Who is 'They'? And in what way extreme?

            You sure you're not just good at maths? :P

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    why you no call me Senor, I make good empenadas?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Maybe she wants you to rescue her?

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    • Boris-G
      9 years ago

      Perhaps she does. I think, realistically, there would be only one effective way to find out - by asking. All I know is she is at a wits end with work, and I don't think I can blame her. I've been taken advantage of for far less than what she's being paid, and I hated it.

      My other thought is this - giving a phone number to a strange man you've met three times under "odd" circumstances would be a recipe for disaster in this modern world. What's to stop me from calling her while she's at work and asking for a freebie? The trust, of course.

      One of my adopted brothers had a best friend who was a prostitute with a child to support. He would take her out to lunch, and they would talk. It turns out they went to the same high school! He never had sex with her, but he did help her. That story always touched my heart. In asking my question, I wasn't asking "Does this woman have feelings?" You would have to stupid and naive to ask that question. I was asking, is this even a likely occurrence, and that was all. I suppose, realistically, anything is possible, trolls aside.

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