Is it normal for a son to experience jerking off with his dad?

I've heard stories about how some sons have experienced masturbating with their dads when they were younger. I thought it was weird, but apparently it does happen.
I have a friend who told me that when he was 15 he was camping with his dad and they were in a tent trying to get some sleep. They were talking about sex, their experiences with girls, and how they lost their virginity. Then the next thing he knew both him and his dad had their penises out of their boxers and they were jacking off together. He even saw his dad ejaculate, and his dad saw him shoot too. He said the experience wasn't as awkward as he'd thought. They had a good laugh about it and didn't talk about it again.
I've also read online different stories about other father and sons have masturbated together.
Is this normal and how commonly does it happen?

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  • TeachingSon

    Yes, it is normal. I was given the birds and bees at a young age and when I hit puberty my dad and mom noticed erections. Dad and I had a weekend getaway and the topic came up during a movie scene. He said its normal all men do it and I was of the age. I didn't know what to thing as school always said it was bad. He explained to me its not bad it no touching. So we got naked and and he showed me how to get the proper gear, meaning tissue or a towel to cum on to. He demonstrated on his cock, which I though was huge given my age. We measured our penises and jerked off till we both ejaculated. we did this for a few years until I was older and he felt I didn't need the help or guidance anymore. I later found out grandpa did the same for him. He explained in modern times this is ok, no longer a taboo for a dad and son to learn proper masturbation. I'm well adjusted with my own family know.

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  • 47yodad

    Yes i think its totaly normal my dad showed me how to wank and i showed my son hes 12yo i just showed him like two weeks ago one saturday night i am divorced and it was my week end we ware watching brokeback mountin. Now before you start i think the acting in the movie was excellent and we sat in bed and watched the entire movie until it came to the part where the two guys had sex in the tent and he started acting goofey so i explained to him that the guys were enjoying GAY SEX and that is was compleetly natural as i dont want to raise a homo basher i want my son to respect everyone ! Anyway i asked him if he gets erections and he said yes and i asked him if he had cum yet he got shy and said no !! So i told him its fine he will soon i asked him if he wanted to see his dad cum and he said yes so i slowely took out my cock and showed my son how to stimulate your dick and i cumed all over my chest and it run down my dick into my black bush he asked me if he could feel it so i let him he put it on his had and smelled it . that part was funny he said it smelth like bleech for washing whites i said i guess so son ! The he asked if he could feel it in my pubs i said yes you can ! After whick me and him took a shower and fell asleep naked in bed we sleep naked now all the time !!! And by the way yes has NOT CUM YET. but his balls have droped and i felt him in the shower and his nutsack seems full but nothing yet ! So yes it totaly normal dad son behavior!!!! And as a dad i am totaly straight ladys only for me full stop !!!

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    • Steven18j

      Wish my dad was like you. I had so many question but was too shy to ask. I resorted to spying but never got the answers I wanted. When I was caught spying he asked if I wanted to see it, and I was too afraid to say yes.

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    • Dad.Solo

      Cool dad ;)

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      • 47yodad

        Thanks dad solo i appreciate your support !!!

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    • jhawer22

      wow hot cute, naked cuddle always good

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    • ThatGuyAwakeAt7AMInSummer

      Wish I had a dad like you... unfortunately mine was a homophobic idiot who treated my mom like trash. I had to find out about masturbation by myself, no one showed me how to masturbate, when I found out I was gay he decided to tell me he will never talk to me again... that was about 3 years ago. Glad to know there is someone raising his kid propperly

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    • Jetstar

      Sounds good to me.

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  • Greg1954

    As part of my sex education at home mom and dad thought that I should see what they were actually talking about. Dad demonstrated an ejaculation. For a lot of years after that we often jerked off together. On camping breaks with my uncle he would also join in. Dad showed me some great techniques.

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  • BBScruffyBuck

    I wouldn't say it was normal just because it's not something that happens with a majority of dad's and sons. But I don't think there's anything wrong with it, either.

    I understand Avant-Garde's viewpoint but think there's a big difference between abuse and what was described. First of all, abuse is not consensual and more importantly, two guys masturbating--while not touching each other--isn't even really a sexual encounter so to speak.

    When my parents divorced I was about 16 and moved in with my dad. He didn't have much money since he was paying child support for my sisters and the apartment we lived in was a studio with a futon we both slept in. We both slept in underwear and I used to wait what seemed like hours for him to be sound asleep before i'd slip my hand into my shorts so I could quietly and with as little movement as possible, play with my dick until I came.

    One night he went out and I was already in bed when he got home. I'd been playing with myself when I heard the keys in the lock and just turned on my side and froze. I had taken my underwear off and was stark naked, my dick hard as a rock. I just played like I was asleep while he got into bed. I continued to play like I was sleeping when I felt the bed shaking. I tried even hard to be "asleep" but when I figured out he was jerking off my dick got twice as hard as it was already and I couldn't help lightly stoking it.

    As the bed shook faster and I could tell he was close I couldn't help but to start cumming myself and without realizing it i moaned when I did. "Are you awake," he asked. I wasn't going to say anything but figured he already knew so I just said "Sorry" and hoped we'd leave it at that.

    "You don't have to hide beating off, kid" he said as I laid there wanting to die. "It's no big deal and if we're going to share a bed it's gonna happen."

    I just laid there and didn't say anything but as soon as I felt the bed starting to shake again my dick was instantly hard (god I miss those days!) so I started playing with it a bit more than I had been, no longer afraid he'd find out, but I still laid on my side facing away from him.

    "You don't have to hide," he said, reaching over and pulling me onto my back by my shoulder. "See?"

    It was dark but between the light that was on in the bathroom and the light that the mini blinds didn't block from outside, I could see his HUGE dick with his hand around it going from top to bottom. I was mesmerized and just stared as I continued to play with mine. He pulled the covers off me and I stopped mid-stroke as i felt the air on my dick.

    We didn't talk about it anymore and just both laid there, each watching the other jerking off. We came almost in unison and following his lead, I didn't wipe the cum off my chest, but just turned over and went to sleep.

    From then on we jerked off just about every night until I moved out when I was 23, and then over the next 10 years or so, every now and then either when he'd visit my place or i'd go see him we'd jerk off watching porn, sometimes stroking the whole night. It was probably the best time I ever spent with him and 'bonding' is a perfect word to describe it.

    I've got several straight buddies now I jerk off with and they say the same thing--it's a great feeling of male bonding and even though I"m gay and they're straight, it's not about a label because we're usually not even on the same sofa. It's just a very personal, very enjoyable shared male-experience.

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    • Danny3206

      My parents are divorced and every other week I was at my dad's or mom' place. I always liked my dad's place because he had the porn channel. My dad was in the living room sitting on the sofa with his pants down and stroking himself. For some reason I watched and he saw me looking. He must have been embarrassed and he pulled his pants up. I said we really do look alike and he laughed. Our cocks were the same. That night being 16 I jerked off over ten times with the door opened. After that incident we were cool being naked or jerking off. We even fucked a prositue together. It was a nice bonding time and my dad even said that he has a big dick but mine is bigger.

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      • Zell701

        Dang you are one lucky dude. You guys don’t take any vids?

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      • coreym

        Same! My dad (Dana M. Haines) didn't care if I openly jacked off around his apartment. He, encouraged me! His place was extra small. We started doing this right after I moved in with him. We even jacked off together. "Father and son bonding," lol!
        Like you, I have a larger dick compared to my dad. I'm 7.5" long when I'm erect, and my dad's dick is 5.25" long when he's hard. My dad is my best friend, and I'm his only son. Fathers and sons should consider trying this type of relationship. It might help them "bond," too. Corey M. Haines in Akron, Ohio.

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  • Blade884

    Staying with my divorsed dad for week in summer, he just had one room apt. He slept in the nude, and being shyish, I slept in undeware. I was 13ish.

    He had tv at end of bed, and had cable. We were watching movie with sex scenes and hot chics, and I was getting hard. He then asked me to get something, and I freaked cause I didn't want to get out of bed, our of covers cause my undies were buldging from my erection.

    He insisted I got his drink/cigs/whatever it was that was across the room. I got out and on the way back, he startd to laugh before I handed him the thing. He finally ansered me why he was laughing, and he just layed on his back, as he was on his side. His dick poped a tent under the cover and said he was hard too.

    we talked about it, and he convinced me there was nothing wrong with it, and how it was natural, etc. Eventually we pulled the covers down, and I took my underware off. At first I was impressed and jealous of his larger dick and balls. He was perfectly straight, thick, with larger balls. he eventually let me touch him, and I examined his dick and balls. I remember grabbing the shaft felt strange, as I was used to only my dick. Then the moment turned to a sex talk, and we both got soft during the talk. The movie started back and, and we got hard again later. He asked if I minded if he jerk off and how could I say no.

    he came down his dick into his pubs, and I asked, still jerking off, why he didn't shoot his cum like I did. AFter explaining, I realized shooting cum far wasn't normal. He didn't want me to make a mess, go he got me tissues.

    the next night, now my dad was curious of something. how far I shot. AFter dark, we went out on his balcony. We were shadowed being upon the top/3rd floor, but street lights, headlights below on the street lit all up. Lots of people walked by, as his apartment was right on the beach, across from boardwalk and beach. Now we are half laughing, and he says to see if I can clear the awings below us on first floor. beyond that was sidewalk with all the people.

    He pointed out hot chics walking by to get me excited, and eventually, whihe half hard, he reached over and pumped me a little. I was embarrased that someone else touching me did the trick to easily. Becuase of the way the railing was, I couldn't look over, and aim thru slats at same time so my dad watched over the side as slyly as he could.

    I imagined a hot girl on the beach that day, and soon enough, with the cool air whipping around my dick, I came just as hard if not harder than I ever have. My dad pulled me back after I finished cumming, with a look of shock and laughter, both fighitng to take over. We snuck back in, and he burst out laughing. Eventually he told me I totally shot my cum 6 feet or so, and most of it went all over the people walking by. I wanted to do it again and see for myself, but my dad said no more of that.

    That night I woke up, went out there, and jerked off myself alone. I stood on chair to watch, and sure enough my first cum shot made it tothe sidewalk, where I heard the rest fall on the awning below with a splat sound. No one really out walking at this hour, so no one to hit..hahahah

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    • ILoveWankingOffAndSpunkingUp

      Your a liar or you have a perv of a Dad, who is letting His 13 Years old Son watch Porn!

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  • Jeffharper1977

    Not sure what is or isn't normal. But growing up with two sisters and being the only boy. My dad took me on over the road long haul trips starting when I was about ten. He was owner operator of small trucking company. Every time I had school breaks,or summer holiday he took mercy and got me out the house,so I could get a break from mom and my sisters. The first few years nothing significant happened. But just before I turned 14, I started asking him about girls and asked him what beating off was. A friend had told me his dad had asked him if he had started beating off or having sex yet? So dad said we would talk that night once he had finished driving for the day. He parked at an old truckstop he used occasionally when in Arkansas. Fueled up, we ate,then after truck parked in lot where we sleeping that night, got sleep shorts, t-shirts went in, we went same room. He told me shower while he shaved. Had curtain that was ripped and huge gap, so after few tries get it shut, dad laughed and said, your wasting ur time boy, and besides, just me and you in here, nobody gonna see u. As I started shampooing my hair,I noticed dad wasn't shaving, he was just watching me. I asked him if something was wrong, he said no, just never realized how much hair you have. I realized he was talking about the hair around my cock and balls. He said while I'm on that subject, son do you know what that means, all that hair and how your cock has gotten bigger over past few years? I told him I knew some, about puberty and stuff. That's when he told me that beating off is when a man rubs his cock til it gets hard, once hard he wraps hand around it and pumps it up and down. I said ohhh thats what you call it. He asked me if I knew about that already,and I said yeah. Told him I had been doing that over a year now. He said he thought so but had not wanted to embarrass me, is why he hadn't asked. That's when he told me it was normal and healthy to do it. Said he would prefer me doing that,than having sex with girls. Said that time would come soon enough. When I was ready to try it with a girl, asked me to talk to him first, said he would keep between me and him,but he would want to make sure I had protection. Said he would buy me some condoms. Asked if I knew what condoms were, and I told him yes, had learned that in sex ed. After a minute or so, he was shaving and I started washing again. I worked up the courage and asked dad did him and mom still have sex a lot? He laughed and said, a good bit, but when he's on the road working, or at the hunting camp. He did without a good bit. I asked if he still got horny and wanted mom when not with her. That's when he told me,son a lot of men get blowjobs or fuck other women when not around their wives. Especially when they have super high sex drive like I do. But not once since ur mom and I have been married have I ever cheated on her. But I do still beat off all the time when on the road in my truck, or at the hunting camp. I was like wow dad thats cool. Then I couldn't help myself,I asked him,dad do u mind if I ask how long ago was the last time u jerked off in your truck. He laughed real hard then! I was like did I do something wrong, I started to apologize, and he said son, when I get horny I beat off. Ohhh so when did u get horny last? He said last night after we watched Monday night football. I was like thats not true I played video games over an hour after you went to bed. He said son after u put earphones on, why do you think I asked u to turn the overhead light off and asked u to put that sheet that hung between us? I said u told me so the light not bother u from my games,so u could get sleep. He asked how far did the sheet cover,and I said from top between our heads down to below our waists, and mid thighs. He said u didn't notice when I slid my underwear down and tossed them now floor beside the bunk? I said yeah but you know I did the same right after, because I tossed mine around and they went over u to the floor too. But I didn't think anything of it because we been sleeping naked when just u and me since I was little. He said son I always try being quite when you are with me but I'm sure you have felt the bed moving before. Said thats how he knew I already beat off, and said he had moved his hand to where sheet between us had about an inch crack, and he knew I thought he was asleep. Said he saw me tug my balls with one hand and stroke with the other til I came. I got embarrassed then and dad said don't be embarrassed with me son. It's ok. He told me finish up before water get cold. I finished,he got in showered then we went to truck. Guess he knew I was thinking over everything we had discussed. Said we would talk more about it later. I told him I was gonna game a bit before going to bed, he said fine with him, turn light out and hang sheet. I asked if he needed it up because he was gonna beat off again tonight. As I was starting to clip sheet up,dad stripped off his underwear and said yeah, that he was super tired and usually skip a night when this tired, but said all the talk about jerking had him wanting to bust a good nut. I stripped off my underwear and clipped the sheet, only put headphones half on so I could hear dad. Almost immediately I knew what was going on. About 5 minutes later dad asked me I it was hot or was it just him? Told him I was hot too, he told me get up and turn down the ac. When I got up,dad stopped jerking but was holding his rock hard cock. When I was crawling back over him to get in bed behind him again, he noticed I was getting pretty hard too. Asked me if I was gonna beat off that night too? I said yeah after my game and after u asleep probably so. He said ok and after I put sheet up, dad started going again. I realized if I bent my left knee o could make the curtain open just enough,could see side dads waist and balls and cock, after few minutes,I forgot about the game,decided to jerk slow as I watched dad jerking. After a few minutes, I seen dad put his arm up kinda wrapped into sheet, then a minute later he leaned and the top two clips came undone, he act like nothing happened and kept going. After another minute I was so horny,I was stroking and at that point,dad fully removed the sheet and started talking about girls and pussy.

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    • sneakbj

      This was a hot story! So how was the feeling? Did y’all cum at the same time? Did y’all beat off more after? Do y’all still beat off?

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  • Mikka1989

    Yes it’s completely normal growing up it was just my dad and me my mom past way when I was 5. And my dad never remarried. So growing up it was normal to come home and find my dad naked walking around the house and I remember asking him about it one time he said if. Were in our own home we should be allowed to be comfortable I remember coming home from school one time and my dads old military friend was over from back in the day and he would sleep naked on the catch did not care if I saw him naked But more to the point I was 12 or 13 we were eating dinner one night and my dad straight up asked me if I had masturbated yet I told him no he said ok. I came home from school the next day and I went to are room we shared a loft apartment It’s all he could afford at the time and we were getting ready for bed and he ask me if I wanted to learn how to masturbate I told him yes so he started masturbating in front of me laying down on the bed . He said it was completely normal if I wanted to try it for my self he told me this is why he would Always lock himself in the bathroom but now that I was old enough he felt there was no point in trying to hide it. He started to ejaculate all over the palce I was still going at it trying to make the same thing happen but could not . He told me it’s normal and one day soon I will be able to do the same thing I ask him if I could Touch his penis he said yes I could not believe how big it was in my hand and then I ask if I could touch his balls he said yes and he told me one dayy dick and balls would be as big and that it was normal for males to masturbate together. Just not to touch and I ask I’m then why did you let me Touch you he said your my son and I want you to k ow how it’s supposed to feel and that it’s ok to masturbate with other men It’s a real bodying experience . And from that point on me or my dad would turn on the tv to porn and rub one out. No we’re not gay at all in fact I’m 29 now and my son just tuned 12 I talk to my wife about teaching our son the proper way to masturbate and she thought it was a good idea so that he could not hurt himself so I’m going to teach him this weekend.

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    • Steven18j

      How did it go? ....teaching him.

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  • thechmp24

    I have jacked off and more with my stepdad. He caught me one day jacking off, he asked if he could join. The first several times we jacked off then we started exploring each other. We still play to this day but mom doesnt know, we just dont it as often since I am married now

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  • Avant-Garde

    I'm sorry but that doesn't sit well with me. Perhaps, it's because I was abused as a kid. Maybe, if I weren't I wouldn't find this weird. It's just strange. There are other more appropriate ways to teach someone about the birds and the bees, etc.

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    • Dad.Solo

      Sorry about your sad experience, abusing somebody is certainly a terrible unforgivable act. But I have to say that unusual as it sounds, there are cases when father and son masturbate together. Of course, there is mutual agreement and no coercion implied.

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      • Doesn’t matter if it’s “mutual” or not “coerced” in your sick head. If the kid is a minor, it’s molestation, period.

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      • Avant-Garde

        If the unpleasantness in my childhood never took place, I still don't think I would be able to wrap my head around this one.

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        • Dad.Solo

          Different opinions. Fair enough.

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  • Davidandmydad

    Wonder if women compare their breast size to their mother's breasts.

    Breast are visible.

    We all need advice and as curious like we all our, brings up this topic. The penis is not the real topic.

    Do we measure up to our parents? Are we more evolved, educated, and for the men reading my comment; is our COCK bigger than the cock we swam out?

    Quite funny how all men seem to ask the same question.

    Str8 or Bi, we all want to evolve.

    You all must be living a very privileged life.

    Your concern is comparing your penis.

    May God have mercy on your soul and your dad.

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  • RavenRick

    As a kid I was always trying to sneak peaks at my dad in the shower, etc. He was a big strongly built guy and had a set of balls on him that his boxers couldn't seem to contain LOL. His uniform around the house was a pair of white boxers and a white tee. Every time he sat down on the sofa...plop, they came spilling out. I think back now and realize that even though I was a little kid and they seemed huge to me that he really was particularly well endowed. I only got a gimps here and there of his dick, but I could see it was uncut which I found interesting because My parents had me cut. The first time he walked in on me masturbating I must have been 12 or so. I just remember how embarrassed I was, but also how arousing it was for me to have my Dad see me masturbating, to see me hard. He just backed out of the room chuckling, I'd have given anything to have had him stay there and join me. After that I used to let Dad "catch" me jerking off all the time. I'd pretend I wasn't aware that he had walked into my room and let him see me masturbating, but nothing ever happened. I'd go as far as to continue jerking off while innocently asking him questions about masturbation "was it bad for me? was I too small? would I get bigger" all the time slowly jerking off in front of him and being extremely aroused. Finally at 16 I found guys to jerk off with and was home less and less. But what I wouldn't have given to have jerked off with my Dad, or jerked each other off, but he never crossed that line. I really wish he had.

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  • Mikka1989

    I think Its %100 Present Normal for guys all of all ages as long as there in the 12 or 13 age or older I have a best friend who never had a dad or brother and we were taking about it the other day when he came of age he had no idea what was going on he started skipping school and did not want to tell his mom because he was to Embarrassed to talk to anyone about it we both have boys the same age 13 and both of are wife are ok with use showing them how to take care of a random Bonner and how to take care of it when you have alone time we went camping this past weekend showed them how to tuck it in your waste band how to masturbate and best ways of how to keep it from getting dirty with napkins and how to put on a condom because lets face it most kinds are sexily active by the time there 14 the only thing you can do is show them how to best deal with it

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  • JayRen210

    Yes, as a matter in fact my dad partially taught me after a friend of mine and I did it together. He was giving me the birds and the bees talk and I just brought up that my buddy and I had done it. He asked how I was informed to please myself, and then proceeded to show me other techniques. He told me experiencing masturbation with other men was normal. I asked if we could do it together. He hesitated at first and said, "What the hell"?. His penis was much larger than mine. We didn't touch that first time. After that we did it up until I was 15 and even moved up to stroking each other while watching porn. We measured my growth several times throughout the years, and I eventually grew to as big as he was, which actually made me feel more confident. I'm straight and always liked girls. I'm even married now, but I honestly kind of miss those days.

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  • derpyderp

    How the fuck is it nearly 80% normal to wank while you're with your dad?
    Seriously, how? Who's doing that?
    200+ votes, 80% normal?

    This is even worse than something I read the other day about "jerk off buddies", where guys & their male mates all get together & have at it.

    No shit, am I the odd one out here for only wanting to jerk off either by myself or with a girl?

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    • ILoveWankingOffAndSpunkingUp

      Yes. Your the odd One out Mate! A lot of Lads Wank Off with their Dads and/or other Male Relatives. A lot also Wank Off with their Mates. What's the problem? We're all Males. We're not having Sex! Actually your not really odd. A lot Wank Off alone, and a lot Wank Off with a Girlfriend or Boyfriend. Your reading too much into things. Get out with a Mate or Mates, and have a good Wanking Off session. It's really good, and a great way to bond better with Mates! :o)

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    • oldcar

      I do it with my brothers and friends and I'm married.

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    • TeachingSon

      You would be surprised how many do

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      • Redhotstud3000

        Not surprised...I am straight and enjoy bonding times with some other straight married buds.

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      • jhawer22

        hot teach son

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    • Dad.Solo

      Just because you haven't masturbated with your dad/friend/etc or know of no one else who has, doesn't mean others don't do it.

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  • GreyWulfen

    I guess that's some kind of sexual education. Nothing wrong with to show how it's done, imo.

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  • alfaking

    still have the video?

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  • No, it’s not normal. There are a high percentage of Chesters and molesters on this thread. Eroticism, cum shots, sexual activity.....not intended to take place between father and son, period. That’s where police, CPS and handguns come in handy. Big difference between taboo fantasy and reality. If your dad, stepdad, uncle, neighbor, etc is telling you it’s normal in a perverted attempt to jerk off with you or anything sexual and you’re a minor, tell the police, period. Better yet, secretly record them, save your texts and whatever else you can do to bust them.

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  • Dad.Solo

    Not usual but it does happen.

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  • Sketcher18

    Um, no. I mean, I'm a girl, so it might be different, but my mom and I have never masturbated together, and just the thought of that disturbs me.

    Not normal.

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    • Dad.Solo

      It's different in females. Men tend to be real pigs when it comes to sex.

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  • _Molotov_Cocktail_

    I used to throw molotov cocktails with my dad. I miss my dad...
    Not normal by the way.

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