Is it normal for a straight guy to fall in love with another guy?

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so lately, ive been noticing this feeling that i know i cant just ignore.im straight but i do find myself a little curious of guys, but nothing i ever really told anybody.ive been trying to come to terms with these feelings because its been bothering me,

but just recently ive been having these feelings for my best friend, he is a really cool person to be around and his personality is like mine,and we like alot of the same things.but he's straight, and so am I but ive been finding myself caring what he thinks of me, and i really get sad when we argue,and not to long ago i had a dream thats really made me question my self,it was a sexual dream and i found myself thinking about it,(and in the dream he said "i like all the attention you give me").and i just cant stop thinking about him, i cant ever wait to see or talk to him. sometime we "pretend" to be gay as a joke, because weve always played like that, but sometimes i find myself enjoying it.

i doubt i could ever really tell him or anybody about this.but thank god for posting anonymously on the interent.but anyways, ive been pretty bummed lately because of all these feelings inside.i just dont know what to do.

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  • devotee
    9 years ago

    It is possible my friend ...
    I've a straight friend, and we are in a committed relationship from past 1.5 years; and he loves immensely ... he is absolutely straight, there is no doubt about it; he had a couple of girlfriends (non-serious) earlier; he used to look at girls, notice them carefully.
    We were friends first, then we came closer and closer ... our bonding strengthened with time ... and soon, we were in a physical relationship as well.
    Presently, we are in a long distance relationship.

    Love is all about feelings, it has nothing to do about sexuality my friend. Go, confess your love to him ... don't bother about the conventional rules of society.

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  • royalspirit
    11 years ago

    Yes it is possible because love is an emotion, to love doesn't have anything to do with gender or sexual orientation, love is a human thing and they are both human, love encompasses gender. Most people are confused by this because they always identify and equate love with sexual attraction which are two separate and different things but are complimentary.

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  • Legion
    13 years ago

    You are probably bisexual, but dont really know it yet. The fact that you like this guy confirms this. But dont worry, its not a bad thing. Most gay and bisexual people dont realize they are until later, usually in their teenage years. You should talk to him, he might be into it. If he is go for it! dont think about what everyone else thinks, just do what makes you happy. You will make you feel a lot better if you tell him how you feel, especially if he says yes.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You obviously saw something in his personality that has attracted you to him in a romantic manner. This is tough because out of two possible outcomes, one will be painful and hard to deal with.

    I would keep hanging out with each other and just keep being friends as you are, let things develop by themselves. If he shares the sentiment towards you, eventually it'll become apparent to you.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    It tends to happen when you get real close to people regardless of gender. Even more likely if you are more open minded.

    A possible way to get rid of it is to start talking to girls more and stumble into a crush on one. But this has a small chance of turning you bisexual, tho. Lol

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    • spacebrainz420
      13 years ago

      well the thing is, before this started happening, i just got out of a long relationship with a girl i was in love with. but after that i didnt feel the same about talking to girls because i was so used to one girl, so i told myself to stay single and just take a break.but now this started to happen..

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  • Painfulnote
    12 years ago

    "90% Normal" What the fuck now? Fucking gay votes who wanted to have another gay fucking boyfriends.

    No kid it is not normal it would only be normal if you were gay.

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