Is it normal for christian to have sex before marriage?
****This is a long story.
You've read the title, so you know what i want to know. But before that i just want to tell you why that is so important to me.
When i was 10 my dad left me and my mom, then a year later my mom left me too. So i lived with my grandmother since i was 11. She did love me a lot. But i was a total jerk. I gave her a lot of troubles, maybe it was because my parents left. Anyway with time passing i've became more responsible, and we had a great time with grandma. My parents were supporting us with some money, so we almost never had to worry about that. I got a full scholarship and went to college. As any other guy i had fun, dated girls, had sex and stuff. After college i've got a job and life was going great. I visited my grandma once in two week or so, since we lived in different cities, anyway we were still very close. i always felt guilty that we don't spend much time together. Now and then she tried to take me to church with her, but i always had an excuse not to go there. She was healthy and strong women, but one day her heart stopped, just like that. She was the single relative a have. I was very depressed. Than a week after she passed i was cleaning her room and found a letter that was addressed to me but was returned for some reason. In the letter she was telling me about stuff that was going in her life and she told me about people in church how they were kind to her. So i went to church next Sunday. It was about one and a half year ago, i didn't become a christian right away, it took me half year or so.
Pardon my bad English, and sorry for the long story. I just wanted you to know that i'm not just a guy who goes to church every sunday. I've changed a lot.
I guess I know the right answer to this question, but i just want to know if i'm not alone in this.