Is it normal for grandmothers to be ungrateful narcissists ?
My patrnal grandmother is the most ungrateful person I've ever known. No matter how much you do to please her she is never happy. She is sent fixed amount of money every month by my father... Which is a generous amount. We always gift her things and visit her but she is never happy. She treats my mother like a rodent and she hates her. She is verbally very abusive. She is quite healthy and strong. No matter what I achieve she always looks down on me and makes me feel inferior.
She has a narcissistic personality. She always plays victim during arguments. I have always helped her bought her gifts from my allowances ( I am not a grown up yet ) but she takes all the love for granted. I hated the way she treated my mother so we had a bad argument and we don't talk anymore.
She told me that she is ashamed to give birth to my father because he didn't follow her commands. She told me that she hates us all and we all are selfish. No matter what we do she just never gets it. My father also gifted her a car but I can't explain you how much of a bitch she was. She acted like she was doing us all a favour accepting the gift.
She is very ungrateful. She even throws everyone else's problems on us. There is this guy who is my cousin and he is a drug addict. He made a girl pregnant and has failed school. He has a pathetic personality but my grandmother favours him over me. She is a chainsmoker herself. This is the reason my father hates lighter , matchsticks and smoke because it triggers his sad childhood memories. So this guy is sent to us because she believes my father's place is a rehabilitation center. I hate her very much. She is the most selfish ungrateful narcissistic mean grandmother ever.