Is it normal for me to be afraid of sex?

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i could never be confident about it since im still a 21 year old virgin. peple say its no big deal but i cant think of it like that. its always been nerve racking and making me freak out.

i dont wanna wait till marriage because im not ready for that and i fear risking to lose half my money and possessions. it makes me think that the woman will change.

will this make me a more confident person in life or will i stay the same because my cousin and brother has been wanting me to lose my virginity for a long time. it makes me think if i lose it then im still gonna be shy.

i just dont get it. i can never relax to the topic and i can tell if im about to im gonna be trembling and its gonna be embarrassing. its too much for me to handle.

guys will always be surprised because im like this and girls will either say wait or just say man up. i wish it were that easy to be that confident but im not like that for some reason.

btw im not afraid of anyone its just this one idea. fighting is something i crave but sex is something that is overwhelming to me.

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  • supaflyafro
    12 years ago

    i hear people say "its just sex" so many times. if it was just sex then would you have sex with anybody then? if not, then its probably not just sex. its different for me. its something i cant wrap my fingers around. just the ide is frightening and it might be exactly the same way as puting a stick in a hole in the ground but its not that simple for me

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  • Jweezee
    12 years ago

    Get drunk with a chick....see where it leads. And i'm not tryin to be funny. It sounds like you wanna screw but don't have the nerve or your inhibitions are too great. I hear alcohol does wonders with those things. Of course, don't expect it to be all that memorable.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    it's normal to be afraid of something you've never experienced before. but don't let your bro and cos pressure you. and don't put pressure on yourself. you're building it up in your head, which is making things more nerve racking than they have to be. try to relax. it's just sex. it'll happen when it's supposed to happen.

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