Is it normal for my boyfriend to put his fingers in my ass?

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My boyfriend really likes to anally finger me. He also likes to have anal sex. He's kind of embarrassed about it and says he feels like a pervert. I tell him it's normal and I don't think he's creepy, but that doesn't change how he feels about it. Is he normal? What can I do to make him feel more comfortable with his fetish?

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  • BurnaTwist
    12 years ago

    stick your finger in his butt lol

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  • ghettomex92
    11 years ago

    this is pretty hot! I wish I had a girl that liked getting her ass fingered, and anal too! thats pretty rare I got slapped for fingering my ex girlfriends ass she didnt like it at all! lol

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  • picflirt
    12 years ago

    BruanTwist may have the right idea. it could be one of those things he thinks is perverted just because he desires having it done to him, and you haven't gone after him yet. OR... he just wants to try something else there and is hoping you'll ask him to.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    I would say... make sure you are both 18, both sure of what you want.

    if he doesn't feel comfortable doing it, do not force him.

    If anything you both should communicate about what you want, what you don't want... and what your hard and soft limits are.

    hard limits are "no - end of story" and need to be respected
    soft limits are "no... but i'll let you convince me", although still if you or your partner say "no. really no... not yet" you still have to respect their wishes.

    there of course has to be compromise.
    if you want X and X is one of his hard limits... you have to accept that you won't get X.
    but if you want Y and he says "mmm maybe, soft limit" you may get what you want but... you both still have to agree.

    and of course if you don't feel comfortable enough to discuss this... it may be too early to start a serious relationship

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    • earlyy
      12 years ago

      I don't have to force him to do it, he's the one that's into and enjoys it, he just feels kind of creepy and abnormal about his own kink.

      We already have discussed this, that's how I know how he feels and what he likes.

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        I don't have any problems with guilt so I will fuck you up the ass any time you want and be glad I did!!!
        Let me know.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        then if you're both over 18 it's fine.

        it sounds like he just needs to come to terms with his own desires. but at least he can discuss them which is good.

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