Is it normal for my dad to call me 'faggot?'

Because I'm small, nonathletic, and I used to run whenever he threw a ball towards me, my dad calls me 'Faggot.' Whenever we go places like Starbucks, he tells the people working behind the counter that my name is 'Faggot,' and the straw that broke the camel's back is when recently, he brought me a birthday cake that had 'Make a Wish, Faggot' written on it. He tells me to loosen up and quit being such a fag, but I want to know if anyone else's dad has done this to them. IIN?

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    No! It's not normal, What a troglodyte cunt nugget

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  • dynamohumm

    Your father is an arsewipe. NO parent should call their child a derogative name like that.

    My ex arsewipe husband called my son a poofter when he came over for an access visit for him and my daughter. My son was 3 and wearing a nightie cos he wanted to. My son (who from an early age knew his father did not like him) then asked me the question that every parent wants their 3 year old to ask, "What's a poofter mummy?"

    I told my ex (out of earshot of my kids) that he was a cunt.

    Your father is one too.

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    • charli.m

      Didn't dad also say it that time he gave me a toy mouse and him toy cars, and he wanted a mouse, too?

      The ones where he burnt one with a cigarette so we could tell which one belonged to which child?

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  • RoseIsabella

    My dad has calls me Turd Blossom, and calls my sister Demon Seed. If your father is an overly conservative Republican then you can always just say, "hey Teabagger how's your ass"?

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    • wistfulmaiden

      hehe turd blossom is kinda funny.
      I call my boyfriend Granny Pickypants sometimes cause hes too neat. Or Mister Monk.
      He calls me Little Slob Mama but its all for fun.

      I just cant stand the word "faggot' its as bad as n***** in my opinion. I think this guys dad is a big douche nozzle.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Don't forget cunt.
        :-)
        I'm quite fond of offensive language and in the U.S. cunt is not entirely unlike n*gger, but I feel we're becoming desensitized to it here in IIN, because it seems to be much more commonly in use across the pond and down under.

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        • wistfulmaiden

          I didn't even know what that meant till I was about 20 lol.
          But I love swearing. My mom swears a lot and my aunt by marriage is this proper looking Irish lady but she has the worst mouth, she once called a priest "that fuckity fucker" :O

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          • RoseIsabella

            Oh, fuckity fucker, that is indeed a good one!
            :-)

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  • iEatZombies_

    Your Dad is an ass. You can rest assured, however, that he's not making you look bad, he's making him look really bad and you look like a sweet innocent young man. Trust me when I say nobody's laughing, nobody finds him funny.

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  • tokillanally

    If this post is real, then your father needs to work on his insecurity issues.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    dear God please let this be a troll post if not then please strike the father dead soon amen.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Ah ah ah Amen!

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  • Katomaru

    Your pops is probable a homosexual

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  • Avant-Garde

    Your dad is a grade A asshole.

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  • Anonymous200

    You have an abusive father. Get out as soon as you can.

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  • BallsOfSteel

    Nope, you're dad's a stupid, corpulent, mean-minded CUNT. Get outta there ASAP. Meanwhile, just tell him to "fuck off".

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  • regisphilbin

    Have you seen the movie American Beauty? The father keeps harassing his son because he thinks his son is gay, when in fact the father is the one that was a closet homosexual all along and trying to hide his own insecurities.

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  • 1aur3n

    You should ask him if he thinks it's funny, he could be doing it cause he thinks you are ok with it, like an inside joke. If he's doing it to put you down that's horrible. If he does think you approve, (just as a married couple would say, idk, honey buns) then just explain I don't like you saying these things can we come up with a new name? I don't think it's appropriate.

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  • Flc2019

    Your fathers sounds like a narcissistic asshole, I'm going to pray for you.

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  • Ace09

    Does ur dad have an account on IIN? Cuz ( correct me if I'm wrong), two ppl said this was normal!

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  • icant_

    My biological father used to call me a fag/faggot.
    Tough times!

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  • LawrencetheLibertine

    Guess who's going to grow up with issues.

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  • dynamohumm

    Oh yes Daddy Dearest.....I remember him well.

    I didn't remember the bit where he burnt one of the toys to tell which was one. I just thought it might have been in one of his drunken stupors which he had with monotonous regularity, whether he was looking after you too or not.

    Was much happier when you kids visited him when he was with Melissa (third wife) rather than Karen (the 2nd one) as Karen was pretty mentally unstable (which I am sure he "helped" her condition quite a bit).

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  • So do you know what the word faggot mean right.. It's means a gay person .. But no it's not normal that your dad calls you a faggot.. But it's wrong ..

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  • TriWolf13

    Not normal. But not uncommon... my father calls me homophobic slurs when he's drunk. Funny thing is, he thinks I'm straight.. Regardless, it's not right or fair to degrade anyone in such a manner.

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  • Unnormalgirl

    No it's not. Plain and simple.

    Your dad may be treating you nicer than some homophobic people, but your dad is one of them.

    He is your dad, you're his son, you have a name and he should call you that, not some stupid slang made for homosexuals. It's stupid and childish. He's a grown man and he should act like one.

    Talk to him seriously if this is really bothering you. Even if you are what some may call "faggot", you deserve so much better and you have to be respected like all other people do.

    And also: is your story for reals? Lol :)

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