Is it normal for my family to treat me like this

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I swear to god i am fed up i just so fed up with my life now that i dont know what i should do with it.
Im a smart younge intelligent woman i am 24 years old yet my family tries to force rules on me that would suit a 15 year old
Im so frustrated with them now that i feel like i should move out and go on with my life . The only problem is that i love my family so much that i can never imagine living without them i need help guys i please need u to advice me on that. My brothers have said to me that if i stay after 10 pm they will kick me out and wtf does tht supposed to mean now i dont understand they immaturity level which im way pssed. Please someone advice me what i should do. I think im gonna fall in depression if they keep imposing rules on me and insult me like an outsider if i were to ever come home late. I d be out working my ass off and theyd be blaming me for shit id never done like habging out with friendsz my brother has said many times he wants inquire about where i am working what time my shift ends this is so f ridiculous and so embarrassing
Please i need ur advice on this

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    MOVE OUT! You say you love your family? They sound like ass holes.

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  • Fallenmoon12
    5 years ago

    Honestly girly ...
    everyone has a point your a grown ass girl... take it from my experience I’m living with my boyfriend &’ his family his mom be the same way kinda like what you describe but far worse ... they took advantage of me not sexually but financially &’ since I don’t have money they want to kick me &’ my boyfriend out they only suck my money &’ my boyfriend’s &’ if my boyfriend comes home late they try taking his car keys + car away like he some minor I’m 23 &’ me &’ my boyfriend talked I told him his parents are toxic &’ to go elsewhere since it’s always drama &’ im pregnant I kid you not I only lived with them maybe 3 months &’ they wanted to kick us out since the first weeks I got there I got fed up &’ im looking for my sons best interest a healthy environment not controlling
    Since your working right now I strongly suggest you move out... loving family in a bad house environment isn’t healthy your not a little girl your old enough to make your decisions I advice you find a studio or a room since it’s a bit cheaper than an apartment but it’s up to you with what you decide you don’t deserve to stress out or anyone

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  • HeyStinka
    5 years ago

    You've got to get on... You are an adult...24!!...and if you didnt say your age, id think im reading a rant from a 15yr old.

    You have got to get your sh*t together. work, rent a flat/get roomies if you must, save some money, take trips. start life NOW.

    And its ok you love your family. You can love them from another address too. One you get to escape to after visits. :)

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Move out. You're an adult.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    What the fuck? Yeah, I think its completely inappropriate for your stupid brother to be trying to impose rules on you! Do ya'll by any chance happen to live in a more traditional patriarchal culture where men think they're the boss? I know I'd be dying to move out if I were in your shoes.

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