Is it normal for my step-father to do this to me

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so my mother was not home and i needed to crack my back so my step-dad was gonna give me a back massage. he rubbed my back and put his knee up in my crouch and started like putting his hands in my pants and touching my butt he then rubbed his hands up my side and touched my boobs he also asked me if ive ever had an organism before. later that night he came in my room and said dont tell anyone about our massage session that night then he went back downstairs when he came back up he came in my bed with me and started giving me an another back massage and started touching my butt and squeezing my boobs and before he left he put his hands in the front of my pants. Is this normal? what should i do?

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36% Normal
Based on 22 votes (8 yes)
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  • Boojum
    6 years ago | pl

    Please - you know perfectly well that it ain't normal and it ain't acceptable.

    Any time a man asks you not to tell anyone else about what's just happened, you know he's aware that he's done something wrong.

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      This

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    Tell your mother.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    what does your real dad say about this? you know the guy your mother divorced so she can get child support for you , and then she marries another man to get his money and sells her daughter to him like she was a whore. you going to do that to your daughter someday?

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Unfortunately Nick. Somtimes there is truth in what you say. Your life sounds like a lot of women screwed you over. I am sorry my gender did that to you. But you old now. Try to love people again.

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    • cheerleader90
      6 years ago

      what do u mean?

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        Nick is a joker. Pay no mind

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  • kingofthebigToe
    6 years ago

    Tell your mom.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    My answer is this. The long term posters here are so used to fake crap from old guys like themselves that they assume u are one of them. If you are then ok. If you are real and this really happend, regardless of age, tell your mom.

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  • Chuda
    6 years ago

    If u enjoy this no problem. Give him a chance and allow him to suck you and fuck you. Nothing is wrong in enjoying sex. If u like allow him.

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    • IHateEverythingx10
      6 years ago

      I would cave your head in if I ever met you. Pathetic, pathetic human being.

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    • La
      6 years ago

      Disgusting

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  • babyhazel
    6 years ago

    gell someone or fuck him

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  • bayng
    6 years ago

    Who tf were the seven people who said this was normal behavior?

    If this is actually happening please get help. If you tell your mom and she doesn't believe you, tell the guidance counselors at your school. They will help you if you are afraid of your parents. If you aren't in school, tell the police.

    Sometimes the mom doesn't want to believe it is happening to her child. It might make her feel rejected by your step-father.

    Get an adult that you know you can trust and will help you.

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  • Checkmate_King
    6 years ago

    Organisms, eh? I hate them. See a doctor he'll give you some stuff to cure the crabbies.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    I would say first off, it could depend on your age as to what you should do. However, so not do nothing. You need to take a stand. When the "me too" thing came around in facebook, I replied - MeToo. I am a male. It was 30 yearsago. Don't let it continue. Scream, Get up and leave the room or whatever, just get someone else's attention if he does it again.

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      I kinda respect what you say.

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      • CDmale4fem
        6 years ago

        Well thank you Nikki, I will work on something better than a "kinda". But seriously, I detest people who feel they have a "right" to prey on innocent and weak. As stated above I myself, 30 years ago I was a victim as well, while in the Navy. I never got any sort of justice. I felt my words were swept under a rug. I know how do many women feel and mean when they say "no". For so long I felt worthless, it was my fault, etc. those same feelings that women and young ladies convey.

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        • nikkiclaire
          6 years ago

          I am really sorry that happened to you.

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          • CDmale4fem
            6 years ago

            I try and mention it since it does make it easier to talk about. I dealt with depression, not being able to hold jobs, drug use to numb the crap I felt. But thank you for your kindness. When the other person and I brought it up to other supervisors, we were told "He's being transferred in 2 weeks". So I guess sending him in to another location to continue doing shit to others was the Navy's idea of justice for Mary and myself. (Mary was the female he did it to also)

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