Is it normal for my student to want to sit in my lap?

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I tutor for money. This one mother wanted her daughter to be tutored everyday. Considering I charge $50 an hour, and I'd be tutoring her 7-days a week, that gives me a nice salary of $350 a week! It's not much, but I'm a poor college student.

This lady's daughter is very sexually aggressive, even though she's only 15-years-old. (I'm going to call her Amy, which isn't her really name.) It wasn't bad when it started, but as time went on, Amy ends up wearing less an less clothes and reveals more and more of her body. She also says inappropriate things. Just an example, she told me she's a 32C. The girl is a natural blonde, with a body that's skinny and curvy. She could probably get any high school boy, I don't really know why she's hitting on me.

I told her Mom, "You know, Amy is hitting on me, and lately, she wears almost nothings while around me." Her Mom said, "Amy just has a little girl crush, nothing to worry about." I said, "She came down on only panties and a tight shirt without a bra." Her mom said, "She's just flaunting her sexuality, it's a phase, it'll pass."

I was dumbstruck. I really could use the money, but I feel like this is wrong, and it makes me uncomfortable.

The other problem is that, Amy's grades have gone up. She went from almost failing to getting mainly A(s) and some B(s). I don't want to lose the money, and I don't want her grades to slip. I just don't get why the mom is so lax.

Just yesterday, Amy sat on my lap, facing me; and hugged me with her legs literally wrapped around my back really tight, while pressing her breast against my chest. This time, she was practically wearing lingerie. Oh, and her mom saw the whole thing!

Amy doesn't have a father figure. I've asked Amy, considering everything she's doing with me, what she's done with other boys. Amy told me, "I've never done anything with a boy before. I wouldn't want to do anything with a boy I'm not in love with."

Help!

I really care about Amy also. I just don't want to quit. I think Amy feels like she's "in love" with me. I don't want her grades to slip.

I wish there was something I could say to Amy.
I don't think I'm overthinking this, This can't possibly be Normal, can it?

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  • shuggy-chan
    8 years ago

    Maybe if u dont have a GF make up an imaginary one and see if she backs off more?

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    • shuggy-chan
      8 years ago

      Or better yet to tell her your gay

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago

        That won't work on her, she knows I'm single & straight.

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        • thegypsysailor
          8 years ago

          Of course she does. Any figment of your imagination would know you really well.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            8 years ago

            Ha ha. sadly she's real, my imaginary girlfriend was never this much trouble.

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  • VinnyB
    8 years ago

    Oh, I was just commenting about people posting erotica here and then you post this great example of what I was talking about, thanks!

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago

    I really doubt this really happened, except for the confines of your own perverted imagination.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    Sounds erotic, but dangerous for you. Can you wait a bit then book her in for a lesson on her 18th birthday?

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  • noid
    8 years ago

    Don't let her sit on your lap and hug you. Set boundaries since her mom won't. Don't be alone with her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I've tried that already, neither her mother nor her find anything wrong with her behavior, she doesn't have a dad nor any siblings & I very well can't have my friends tag along.

      I'm not sure how to continue.

      I have been trying to execute boundaries and it has seemed to work to a small extent but it's not much progress.

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  • Sprungindentod
    8 years ago

    it is quite normal for a 15 year old to be this horny. i'm speaking from personal experience. with puberty, self consciousness, high school and a lot of attention, it could leave a confused teenager extremely sexually frustrated. i wouldn't have the guts to do that, but it all depends on her self confidence and your looks.

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