Is it normal for my teacher to act like this ?
Is it normal for my bio teacher to tell me things like: "it's fun to tease you" and "time goes by so fast with you" and he always asks me to help if he needs any (like passing around papers)
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Is it normal for my bio teacher to tell me things like: "it's fun to tease you" and "time goes by so fast with you" and he always asks me to help if he needs any (like passing around papers)
I tease some of my students all the time. I look foward to having some kids in class because they make me laugh (especially if there's some knuckle heads in the same class). As long as he doesn't make you feel uncomfortable it's fine (word of advice for the sake of you and him...don't be in a room alone). Today everything seems to be considered offensive and unacceptable, BUT if it wasn't for one of my teachers hugging me in a non-sexual way (I was never hugged at home and he knew this) I wouldn't be who I am today...a teacher.
We've been in a room alone many times.
He's not gay he has kids and is married to a woman(well it would be a little strange if he was gay and married to a woman..:p)
But I don't think he is a pedophile now:)
it sounds like he's got his eye on you. if he starts saying really suggestive things, or touches you inappropriately, tell someone right away. i've been touched inappropriately by a much older guy, and he tried to have sex with me but i pulled away and told him no. you don't want that to happen to you.
sounds like you are well suited and you should take him out for a beer and see where the evening takes you..... maybe Bordeaux
If he doesnt try anything i guess hes a little silly ^w^ Its normal, some people are very serious, some are silly, some are regular, besides, male teachers can be like that at times. But if he trys ANYTHING, hes a bad teacher. though i dont wanna say this but he could be gay. Some gays do act like that, some dont. ^.^ wish i had your teacher! I have the serious kinds, though im a goody two shoes the class is loud.
GET OUT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.
Student/Teacher relationships are freaky as hell. I'm really good friends with a guy in my class; we walk to school together, I talk to him about guy problems, we're that good of friends. But people always seem to mistake it as a totally different relationship.
Because we're the same age, I'm not worried. This man is way older than you, you DONT want 'something else' to happen that might ruin that friendship. I'm serious, tell someone about this, or in fact get the hell outta there. YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DON'T.
It sounds perverted because nowadays, any contact with students besides the normal: ''We're going to learn about..'' is going to sound like it's trouble. I agree with the previous comments above. I'd only get concerned if he/she makes any advances or says anything that's troubling to you.
It sounds like you two just have mutual respec for eachother, and have developed a routine of messing with eachother. This i normal i have seen it happen lot's of times between teachers and students.
You may remind him of someone he used to know. Or you may be really responsible and he sees some good in you. I had a teacher like that. I contacted her 10 years later and told her about my occupation and thanked her for believing in me. She said shed never forgotten about me and always wondered what I had aspired to. It was more of a respect thing than sexual. This could be the case.