Is it normal for newly turned 30 husband to be completely not himself?

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Okay, my husband just turned 30. now it seems like he's walking on thew edge all the time. i'm very understanding but he won't talk to me. when I finally do try to open our lines of communication he talks me in circles. Never no flat answers. i'm starting to feel as if he doesn't want this life we share & made together. he's been dishonest with me recently & my husband NEVER lies! I know we love eachother. I just don't know what to do anymore I figured this has to do with him turning 30 my husband use to look at 30 being like a turning point in ones life. he's always said he never want to get old, he'll been young & live it until he can't no more. is it normal for my husband to act this way? will I get over this will he come back and be My Mr. Happy again?

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  • AliceandRabbit
    8 years ago

    Convince him that he's still young, 30 isn't that old. A lot of men will see getting older as plummet for the virility. Do things, travel around the world to distract him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    My Mr Happy again, thats too funny.

    Just grin and bear it in life, make the best of it!!

    Hahahahaha.

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  • AnonymousCanada
    12 years ago

    hes either bored with you or its his mid life crisis. dont worry about it, just let him work it out himself, if things get too out of hand, talk to him.

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  • lpwolfe6
    12 years ago

    My husband did this. He ended up in couseling. Now he's 42 and happy

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    im turning 26 on july 31 and my bf turns 30 on august 24, so i hope this wont happen to him... hes gonna propose on my bday... NOBODY TELL HIM I KNOW lol. id say stop interrogating him and give him a bit of time to himself, and maybe he'll let up.

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  • glomper
    13 years ago

    Try and spice things up. In and out of the bedroom. Try and go on a weekend vacation.

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