Is it normal for people to hate me after a while?

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I feel like there is something wrong with me because every time I get a new friend they ALWAYS hate me after a few times of hanging out with them. I feel like I annoy them. Im just wondering, is it normal for people to want to do everything for you and then suddenly ignore your texts and calls and try to avoid you in public? And I'm talking EVERYONE!

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Based on 32 votes (14 yes)
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  • yngveohlin
    8 years ago

    try to analyze your past actions objectively, put yourself in your new friends' position at times and see if you would "get along with yourself", so to speak.

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    • kittycatrelle
      8 years ago

      Omg thank you, great tool for self analysis!!!

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    yea sorry its you. something you do even if you don't know what it is causes a trigger in others. You can figure out what it is and try to fix it or just carry on and hope things change by themselves. My pro tip cos I'm as messed up as anyone is you can only do as much as you can then forgive yourself for anything you missed.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Ask yourself if you are codependent.

    http://coda.org/index.cfm/meeting-materials1/patterns-and-characteristics-2011/

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25
    8 years ago

    there's always a reason even if its not a good one.

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