Is it normal for people to never want to be your friend?
I'm never anybody's best friend. I feel like everybody hates me.
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I'm never anybody's best friend. I feel like everybody hates me.
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What are you like as a person? Do you listen to people, or do you always try talk to them about stuff in which they're not interested in just a random way?
For instance, let's pretend I'm at work in the break room talking to two other people about a baseball game or a movie, and some person walks up and starts talking to us something completely off topic, that would be a big turn off.
Also do you have a hard time reading facial expressions and body language? Usually people give subtle cues in their facial expressions and body language that let you know whether or not their interested in being friendly. If you can't read those nonverbal signs it can be really hard to socialize.
Manners are also quite important!
Try not to spend too much time obsessing about stuff, or fantasizing in your head.
Why don't you ask an acquaintance this question & ask them for an honest, frank reply.
Be prepared to listen to stuff that might not want to hear. Once you know what the problems are (if there are any), you can then take steps to solve them.
Is it my ghost talking?? But i thibk its coz You & your friends don't share common thoughts.
Why do you feel this way and what evidence do you have to support your thinking?