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I'm a bi man who's heard from a lot of straight guys that they'd thought about kissing and doing other things with men they find attractive, but not anything sexual. Is this a normal thing that straight people do or are a lot of my male friends bi and don't know it?
What I've heard is just the opposite, if I'm reading this right. My understanding is that the "line" between bi and gay is wanting to do romantic things with a guy, like kiss. Want to kiss a guy and you're officially "gay." Wanting to just do a sex act (like a blowjob) without any kissing or romantic stuff like that, and you're sexually "bi" (assuming you also like women). Either way, you're not "straight."
This labeling thing is getting confusing! How 'bout we just don't give a crap what other people do sexually?
Seriously, what is so hard to understand about the gay vs straight male? It's really very simple.
I think it's just that this particular type of troll is in season right now.
Why do people here that do not agree or are repulsed by something posted on this site, call out Troll? I am wondering are you trying to MAGA and own a Red Baseball Hat? LOL, sorry, I don't really mean that, but it just makes me wonder about your motive to point a finger and call out troll! Does Gay and Bi bother you? The question is just that.
Strangely enough though -
Even though there are a lot of trolls, assholes, cunts, and every manner of pricks...
the arguing here is typically more tame than on other forums or social media.
If you want to see trolling, go to youtube and look up videos about cars or martial arts. Holy shit do people get worked up!
To the point of the post, NO ,a straight man would not be getting all aroused or hard or stupid goofy over the thoughts of kissing another man. I can do it try to do a lot of things, however that is not in my bucket list. Along with cuddling, hugging, or making out in any way. I will again someday maybe be in a situation of sucking another guys cock or whatever at that time. But if a "straight" guy gets wet or all excited to kiss another guy, then he's most likely not straight, at least in my definition of straight vs bi or gay.
I used to think it was gross to kiss another man. But I am open minded. I am also bisexual, so I had the opportunity to kiss a guy I was playing with. Well I found out I actually liked it, it's really no different then kissing a woman. I made out with him for several minutes before I went down on him. I would definitely do I again too.
That makes him bi-curious (if not bisexual ) , and definitely its not same as being straight .
Straight men have NO desire to kiss other men.
No, a straight man wants to feel a soft face and lips against his own face and lips. To feel the feminine touch.
What he does NOT want is to feel a rough beard.
These questions are always the same. Is the color red, blue? No it's not fucking blue, it's red.
No, it's not normal. At least not if you're straight. Kissing is a sexual activity so if you're fantasizing about kissing another guy you're either gay or bisexual. Your friends might be patronizing you for being bi. Either that or they are lying or are gay/bisexual themselves.