Is it normal for your friend to be sexual towards you?

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I have this friend that I've known for almost 6 years. He's not my best friend, but we would hangout and get along well. I have quite a few guy friends, but most of them don't try much of anything since I have a girlfriend and they know I don't like it. They never take it further than some comments. This one friend though has gone further, even knowing that I don't like it. He's always real close to me and tries to touch on me when no one's looking. When I use to be alone with him, he kept putting his hands on my ass or boobs, even after I smack him, and he would say how much he "wished I'd let him fuck me". Eventually that got too much for me, so I refused to hangout with him without someone else around. He was mad, but realized I could've completely cut him out. He hasn't stopped though, he's still very sexual towards me.

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    He "wished I'd let him fuck me". A silver tongued romantic as well as being a sex pest.

    If he continues inform him politely that you will kick him in the balls & tell anyone that will listen that he is a sex pest if he doesn't stop now.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    That's not a friend. Stay away from him, never be alone with him.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    If I were you he wouldn't be my friend for very long. Stop hanging around with him. You mentioned that even slapping him didn't work. Maybe a kick in the jewels is in order. But whatever you decide don't hang with him anymore. You mentioned hanging with some other male friends in the same group. Let them know what's going on and maybe they will back alley him to teach him a lesson.

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  • EnglishLad
    6 years ago

    Sexual advances are NOT FUCKING OKAY if you haven't consented to them!

    If I had a dollar for every time I had to point that out since i've been a member of this site, I'd be rolling in racks...

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Dump him entirely, because he is a giant piece of shit who doesn't respect you, and is completely unworthy of your friendship.

    When I was in my late 20s I had a very dear guy best friend who made the mistake of telling me what he wanted to do to me sexually. Within a week's time I had completely dumped him. Yes, he cried like a little bitch, and claimed that he was just joking, but as far as I was concerned the trust was gone. I have no regrets, and if you wise up, and dump this loser you shouldn't have any regrets either. People who don't respect you are unworthy of your time and emotions, they are unworthy of your friendship!

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    You have clearly stated your boundaries more than once, but he's not respecting those. Therefore, he doesn't respect you.

    It's good that you refuse to be alone with him, but it seems he's completely without shame, so that hasn't changed his behavior.

    If he insists on pestering you and making you uncomfortable, why do you continue to spend any time with him? Is it possible that, at some level, you find his persistent attention flattering? If you genuinely do not like it, then avoid the guy, and make it clear to your friends that you don't want to be in his company.

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  • lonewolf1253
    6 years ago

    Give him an ultimatum. Stop coming on to me or you'll get "unfriended". Then if he continues, "unfriend" him. If he won't take no for an answer, he has no respect for you anyways. Ditch him.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    you know its normal because he has a penis and you have a vagina. Tell him the men you like are pussyfied unicorns and to stop bothering you for sex.

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