Is it normal he did this?

Yeah that's cheating if he flirted with other women and asked for nudes. He sounds like an asshole.

I wonder if there's such a thing as addiction counsellors for those who feel an irresistible compulsion to troll.

Porn is normal. I watch it all the time.

Cheating isn't.

He sounds like a dickhead. His behaviour isn't normal and you don't have to put up with it if you don't want to.

Have you tried any other approach rather than making it completely his problem / addiction? It's no one's fault but it's the result of set of circumstances including the over familiarity of a couple, men's basic instinct, and the easy availability of porn. Maybe if you went to couples counselling together to discuss the impact it's having on you, and to make him realise the impact it would have on him, as well as you and the kids, if you kicked him out, then he would realise that he has a heck of a lot to lose and there would be motivation for him to reform.

A little porn is fine. But under these circumstances, I would also feel betrayed. If you do give him another chance, look forward to another fuckup.

Need more details! what so girls are just happy giving out naked photos, I must be hangin with the wrong crowds.

Coming out of an addiction takes time. Going cold turkey doesn't work. Think of it like a drug addiction.

If someone is having 5 lines of cocaine a day and someone else suddenly cuts off all the first person's supply, the first person is going to be an irrascible so and so, and they'll resort to literally anything in order to get their fix...

I can definitely understand how you don't like him asking for nudes off of other women, and I don't feel like I should blame *you* for *his* behaviour, but you're naive if you think someone who is addicted to porn will immediately stop searching for nudity outright when their ability to do so is hindered.

A guy liking porn is very NORMAL. What can be bad is compulsively watching it hours a day. I can understand that u feel like u can't compete with these hot porn stars. However, if it's not compulsive, even if it's hard, don't get upset about it so much. Some guys eventually even get bored with it. How much does he look at porn? How does addiction counselor come into this? Did he go to some porn rehab?

the same way you love money & the bills payed ea month, men love anything sexual. Out of the blue I would say that you're too serious about life. Enjoy your time on earth ( fuck, suck, drink, 3somes with husband, let him watch you with a guest.... snapp out of your comfort zone 1, 2 or 3 times a year. Become each others best friend it only takes time to get there. .. ok ?

You should get nudes from women yourself and then not show them, but secretly masturbate to them.