Is it normal he lied about death?

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So basically my friend, he moved away, & we spoke on Facebook a lot. Well, we had a huge fight, & stopped talking, then one night I got a PM from his "brother" saying he was in a car crash & had died... After a lot of heartbreak, he came to me, after a month, & told me it was to teach me a lesson. Is it normal that I hate his guts & never wanna talk to him again, or should I just get on with it, as he only did it because he missed us? :p
# well I just had to laugh, I saw the photograph, he blew his mind out in a car, he didn't notice that the lights had changed... John... XD Sorry, I like to avoid talking about him, cause my brain still goes "your friend died..." & I can't...

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    It sort of feels like, "Oh, you disagree with what I say?! Well, instead of talking it out with you, I'm going to DIE, and make you feel really bad for disagreeing with me!!! Learn your lesson!!"

    It's great he's not dead, but death isn't a joke. Death is serious and permanent; the grieving process only is hard to deal with and can last to months or years (Yes, even for you). And he made you go through all the crying and heartache for a lesson? That's horrible and manipulative. It would be best to discontinue the friendship, but if you do decide to stay, just be careful.

    Are you a guy or girl? It's not important to the advice already given, but I see this kind of behavior a lot when an asshole guy is trying to gain emotional control over a girl, because never once have I seen my male friends go through such length to get back at eachother. It seems it's always a guy trying to teach a woman a lesson, but I hope I'm wrong.

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    • JulianLennonIsFit
      7 years ago

      No, I am a girl... I said i would try to forgive ect... things got nasty, long story short i pray for his next gf... :/ Thanks though lol...

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  • libertybell
    7 years ago

    Are you asking 'Is it normal that he lied?',or 'is it normal that you hate his guts,and never want to talk to him again?'

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    • JulianLennonIsFit
      7 years ago

      Tbh i forgot bout this... I hate him xD its all good

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    Are you a queer?

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    • JulianLennonIsFit
      7 years ago

      Areee you hinting? Nah im a girl xD

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