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I don't know but if my love doesn't talk to me on avoided me little. Bit even I start feeling to insecure towers her that might I lose my love.
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I don't know why, but my love interest has started to avoid me and doesn't talk to me as much anymore. It is starting to make me feel insecure and I fear that I might lose her if this trend continues. I really hope this doesn't happen because I care about her very much. Will you help me figure out some things I could do to improve my chances at saving the relationship?
I've been in a similar situation. There was a girl I had fallen in love with, and we talked all day, everyday, but I wasn't ready to tell her how I felt because we weren't seeing each other in person. Anyway, we started to talk less and I guess she lost interest. When I finally told her how I felt, she didn't feel the same way and we quit talking for a while. When we started talking again, it was very different. We weren't as close, and now she has a boyfriend. Now there's nothing I can do but ask myself everyday how I lost her, when at one point I practically had her. Ugh :(
My advise to you is this. Go to her as soon as possible. Talk to her. If you two are together, ask her why you aren't as close, and if you're not together get alone and tell her how you feel before things get worse. I'd do anything to tell my girl how I felt back when we were closer instead of waiting until we started to get distant. Maybe we would have been together instead of me having to watch her fall for someone else and know there's absolutely nothing I can ever do about it.
Just enjoy each day as it comes the fear could make it happen. If the fear takes over too much u won't enjoy the happiness u already get
If your love avoids you even just a little bit, you feel insecure, and worried that you're losing them?
I don't know your situation, really. But from my experience, don't hold on too tight, or else you could suck any bit of love right out of the relationship.
Instead of wondering whether they're slipping away or not... stop worrying over it, and talk to them about it. You'll get an answer more easily if you tell them how you feel.
But my love already made committment and then said that we would talk about it after settlement in a job what does it mean buddy? I can't understand it
After settlement in a job?
Thats strange. Maybe they're trying to get their life in check before any serious relationship starts happening. It sounds like they're putting the relationship on hold, until they've gotten situated in their new job. But if they've already made the committment as you've stated, it really doesn't make much sense.
You should come right out and ask them what they mean, that you're a little confused as to where this is going, and why it is, that because they're settling in a job, how something like that is keeping things from moving forward.