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I sometimes feel self conscious I dont understand being stared at for long and why some ppl have the need to stare I cant ever wear any pants without my butt sticking out.
I think you just need to focus on not caring. Not to invalidate your feelings, but there's a good chance that you're attractive if people are staring at you like that.
Easier said than done, but you need to learn to love your body and feel more confident. Maybe get therapy if there are underlying issues that cause you to feel this way.
I don’t see much issue.
Nobody is paying that much attention, we just look and then look at the next girl. We’ve forgotten what we’ve even seen five seconds later because there’s another one...
Yes. I had men in their 50s and older stare at my body when I was 11-12 already, every summer when wearing shorts. Ive always looked very young for my age, which makes it creepier.
There's no escaping it unfortunately
Maybe you have a body that's so astoundingly gorgeous that every male eye in a 200 metre radius is drawn irresistibly to you whenever you step into public.
But it's just barely feasible that this is not what actually happens, and most (or virtually all) of the attention you believe you attract exists only in your head.
If you don't like your body being noticed and appraised by men, then you can choose to wear clothing that conceals and deemphasises the parts you don't want them looking at. And, yeah, in an ideal world, men would be equipped at birth with internal sensors that allowed them to know when a particular woman wanted to be looked at and we'd all only look when a woman transmitted that signal. And, yes, men should never stare at women and they shouldn't look at a woman and visualise what's under her clothing. But that's not the world we live in.
If you don't like men looking at your butt, buy some baggy-assed mom-jeans. If you don't like how those look on you and you like to wear clothing that fits snuggly to your butt, then learn to accept that others will look at whatever you've got on display.
Men have been staring at women since the dawn of time. Its annoying, but you just have to go out and live your life.
Girl there nothing wrong with you wearing tight clothes, if you like your body and have the goods to pull it off do it.but dang girl when men are looking or staring at you it's giving you a compliment saying you are looking good and sexy ,so dont let this stop you from enjoying the outdoors.you are beautiful and sexy so go getum girl!!!! Just saying
I'm a guy and I do look at a nice looking woman when I see them, however I dont break my neck to get a look and I dont stare so long I start drooling. That's just rude, wrong, and makes the guy look P.F.S. (Pretty Fuckin Stupid).
Is this the same troll who keeps posting in the guise of a female? Don't feedthe troll....
Feeling like you’re being stared at is awful and sometimes all it takes is one or two rude gawkers to make you very self conscious. I’ve found that deliberately dressing a bit bad can help, drab colours and slightly too large clothing but what really helps me is remembering that outside of my head I’m not the main character.
Try to remember all the people you pass on your daily walk, you probably can’t and nor can I as most people (even if they’re pretty) are unremarkable. To most people you are just another background character in their own private anime starring them.
You have the right to be outside and see the world. Don’t let a few perverted idiots run your life for you, your private anime matters more than their lack of manners and stupid opinions.
If you rally do like to be checked out wear body masking clothing. But if you’re self conscious about your body, think through your lack of self worth. You’re probably very attractive and should appreciate yourself.