Is it normal i don’t want to “hook up” with guys

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I find that a lot of my friends hook up on tinder, and that’s what they all do. I don’t want to do that when I enter college and start dorming. People have told me to just hook up and it’ll be fine. I just don’t feel comfortable nor do I like seeing other people hurt. I don’t want to have a guy have feelings for me, and then it’s just a one night stand. Does this make sense? Am I stupid for not wanting to hook up at all? I mean, I’m also not too attractive so I don’t know who would hook up if I wanted to. I just want to find the right guy and not have to deal with any hookups. Is that normal?

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  • CozmoWank
    5 years ago

    Wanting a long term, committed relationship is perfectly normal. Not many people are willing to admit that quick hook ups my feel physically gratifying but can leave you feeling emotionally hollow.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    People are shallow, self centered a lot.
    Doesnt mean you should be.
    If you want to be a dirty little girl, thats fine.
    If you want an actual relationship.
    Thats fine also.
    Be you, dont let others decide for you.

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  • mc-nede
    5 years ago

    Normal!! I'm with you on this one.

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  • PanzerGirl
    5 years ago

    Some people don't have high sex drive.
    It's a sign of intelligence. Congratulation.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    Totally normal. You don't want a slam bam thank you ma'am kind of fling. You want a committed relationship that is not based solely on sex. I applaud your decision.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Entirely normal. You’ll meet ppl at school, but you must be active in dorm and college social activities.

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