Is it normal i don't believe men are women?

Lots of men with male genitalia are calling themselves woman when they have no idea what it's actually like to be a woman because they aren't one. I don't agree that just because your emotions make you wish you were female that you can instantly become female that's insulting to real women yet when I say this to males who call themselves women they call me phobic like I'm afraid of something? Gender isn't an emotion, doesn't make me fearful when a man calls himself a women it's just pure insanity and insulting to us women.

You can feel like you want to be a cat too but it doesn't make you a cat and you have no idea what it's like to be a cat if you were never a cat.