Is it normal i dream about this girl that i dont even know

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Okay so uumm for the past 3 years . I have been having recurring dreams about the same girl. I dont know her honestly she just appears in my dream. she appears mostly when i am down sad or not feeling well. she comforts me and just makes me feel safe but there is nothing sexually is happening between us though i can be sexually and intimate with anyone else out there expect her .I cant even imagine kissing her but i just wanna be around her I wanna make her happy but She never talks and if she does i cant remember what she says when i wake up. i can see her in my dreams but as well when i wake up i cant remember her clearly her body and face is covered in yellow/orange light but i can only remember her smile and hair clearly. It feels like i have know her for a long time i feel more connected to her than any other girl i know in real life but i honestly have never seen her in my life. Recently i started developing these strong feelings towards her as if i am... "I AM IN LOVE WITH HER" .I am involved with someone at the moment but i cant put my 100% in the relationship i have now because of this girl in my dreams. As i said before i feel more connected to her than any other girl i know in real life but i have no clue who she is .I sometimes have the urge just to see her and to be with and just to hold her or hold her hand.I get very happy when i am around her or when i see her . The last time i saw her was about 2 months ago and since then i haven't seen her at all

can any help me with this please and thank you

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  • TrustMeImLying
    8 years ago

    It's high time you took her out on a date. Prepare a candle-light dinner and fall asleep on the chair.

    I don't think this feeling is going to last long. Soon enough you'll stop dreaming about her, and the feeling of being in love with her will fade away too. Don't overanalyze it, think about it or try to force yourself to not dream about her (even though that's not possible). Just let it happen. For all you know she is simply a concept - an reflection of how you strongly want to feel.

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    • LostinthevoidoftheAbyss
      8 years ago

      You maybe be right. Thank you

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  • dragonfruit33
    8 years ago

    Look up twinflames and Guardian Angels.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    I fuck people I don't know in my dreams . I think it's normal though?

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  • modernism
    8 years ago

    Sounds like Beautiful Creatures (it's a book and movie). It's an obvious fiction/fantasy, though you might want to check it out.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    I keep having dreams about the lives of eight different people. The dreams vary from being about normal stuff they do, to getting into crazy battles to protect their planet and the people on it. This has been going on for about a decade. I remember back in my teens, their existence in my dreams had me questioning my sanity for a short time.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Ain't dreams nice? Anything you can imagine can happen.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I don't know why but I've had reacuring dreams about a woman in a thin white dress with black hair too many times. It's a sign!...Or just a pointless thing in dreams. Lol.

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    • LostinthevoidoftheAbyss
      8 years ago

      take it seriously it might be a sign . just hold and dont let go till you eventually feel its useless but i really dont idk it be a sigh it be pointless dreams things . we just have to wait and see

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    Who do you think she is? Someone you'll meet in the future? Someone you knew in the past, or even in a past life? Or maybe she's just a feeling, a manifestation of the way you want someone to make you feel.

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    • LostinthevoidoftheAbyss
      8 years ago

      i asked a bunch of friends and they told me it might be someone i meet in my past life someone used to love someone i helped. idk really friend . i am just as lost as the next guy

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