Is it normal i get annoyed by fat ppl?

I'm a petite girl, 5"2' and around 95 pounds. I'm very active and I love to run and I'm always in a rush because I live a busy active lifestyle which to me is fun and refreshing and fit for the warmer weather. I however, find that I am getting more and more annoyed by bigger people who take up the whole walkway/sidewalk/trail. meanwhile I'm teetering back and forth and trying to be as polite as ever to let him/her know I'm trying to pass by but most of the time the slow waddling continues or I get a dirty look.
I know despite my username ( its meant to be an inside joke and an idea I got from a friend) I'm considered hot and cute and sometimes when I do my usual runs I get hooted by guys whom I obviously ignore since I have a bf but one time there were these two big girls with their male friend (he whistled at me) and one fat girls response in a snobby tone was "why is she running?" I thought it made her sound like a lazy bitch cause she acted as if she never saw ppl run before ( even tho it's human nature) and I felt like telling at her "so I don't turn out as fat ad you!"

Another reason why I am annoyed at fat ppl: I used to be friends with a few but they were always commenting how I was apparently walking too fast for their waddling speed (I never thought I was) or how they were too tired and hungry and blah blah blah and I always had to slooooowwww down for them even tho it annoyed me like fuck. And it grossed me out how they wanted to eat at nasty greasy restaurants all the time and how they expect me to follow their behaviors? I mean wtf

I don't mean to hate bash but in general I am just annoyed at how they take up whole aisle and they sometimes give me a dirty look when I say "excuse me" and that happens too often

Anyways my question is that is it normal to be annoyed by fat ppl? If yes, what are your reasons?

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  • Ibelievethis

    News flash. We're not all perfect like you. Who are you to dictate what size people should be. Really, how very dare you. x

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  • Hopefuldreamer

    The only time I get get annoyed by them is if they complain about their weight, but they don't do anything to change it. A girl who used to be my friend (we stopped being friends for a different reason) and she used to complain to me that she couldn't lose weight.

    However, she didn't want to exercise to lose the weight. She wanted to just take diet pills and let them work, or try crash diets. I am a hiker, I do it almost daily unless it's raining. I invited her to come with me, but she'd complain that was too much work. If I parked too far from a store, she would complain she would have to walk so far.

    On the other hand, I've known some people who were overweight and they worked hard and they lost all the weight. People like that I can admire. Someone who sits around and complains, but doesn't do anything to change annoys me.

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    • PureLikeSnow

      Your first sentence summed up what I was going to say. Well put.

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  • dickwashington

    im overweight and i get annoyed with fat people some of them are just plain gross but it makes me feel better about my own weight so im good

    im talking huge people like morbidly obese not just somebody with a few extra pounds

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  • donotmockme

    My best friend is obese and is about 200 pounds but she has PCOS. Would you make fun of someone with a health condition? I don't make fun of her. She used to be thinner than me in middle school but she started gaining weight and didn't know why. She used to be a size 2 in jeans and I was always a size 8 but now she's much much bigger than me. It's really not nice to make fun of people with problems they can't control. Even if someone doesn't have a health condition like this, they probably have a slower metabolism because I work out every day and have a gym membership with my sister and I am still a size 8. I can't seem to lose any and I eat healthy. So please don't be ignorant to how people burn fat at different rates/have medical conditions.

    My mother has hypothyroidism and is big. She is on medication but still struggles to keep her weight down/get the doses right. I might get hypothyroidism because when I got checked, they said it was over a point and that I should keep checking. With hypothyroid, you can get it randomly and you will gain almost immediately and not just a little unless you're lucky. My mother was my size 8 when she was my age and now she's 1X and yes, she does eat healthy.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Cheer up you'll outlive them! How many big, fat geezers do you see waddling around? High blood pressure and diabetes do their job if they don't scare people into shape.

    Now, how do you feel about people with hypothyroidism? Try not to be so hateful towards the fatties cause karma can be real bitch. I used to feel a lot like you do and now I have to take thyroid medicine every day.

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    • allmylove

      not true based on new studys overly skinny people die 3 years before fat people and are less healty

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      • perfectxsilence

        You're right and this is true. There's a huge misconception about how overweight means shorter life-span but they live the longest and underweight or near underweight live the shortest.

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        • Even if they do so what they live a shittier life longer. I rather die young and live a good life then live shitty for a long life. Btw you gained the weight because of your bad diet. You dont eat properly which makes your metabolism slow down.

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          • perfectxsilence

            You know nothing about health my dear. I'm sure I eat a lot healthier than you and I exercise more than most people. You should really look this up so you can educate yourself more before appearing this ignorant but people have "Hypothyroidism" and "PCOS" or just generally a slower metabolism. We don't all burn fat at the same rate. I would love that to be the reason of weight gain and my struggles to lose but after 6 months of exercising to the extreme more than usual and dieting to the T, I am only 4 pounds lighter and that 4 pounds seems to just be temporary. If you ever get this, you'll understand. So many people have this. Let's just hope it doesn't happen to you.

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            • donotmockme

              This is similar to what I wrote and is so perfectly true. I'm SO terrified I'll get hypo because my Mother has it. She was my weight when she was my age and now she's twice the size she used to be. I'm already noticing how I can't lose any weight and stay a size 8 no matter what. I thought I could get to a size 6 but I can't get there. I know I burn calories slower than others for sure because I see people go to the gym and lose weight in a month while I'm trying and trying to no avail.

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          • donotmockme

            How do you have a shitty life if you're overweight or fat? Lol. Some fat people are the happiest people I know. My neighbor is seriously extremely obese but she travels the world with her husband and three kids every few months and is always smiling and laughing. I envy how much she lives when I don't. One of my great grandmothers is really obese and she's turning 90 next week while the other is 101 years old - YES, 101 and completely fine. She's still living and she's happy. You must not be happy with yourself and just put on a mask.

            Oh and not everyone gains weight because of their diet. I think it's probably about 60% of people who gain because of the poor diet but a lot of people have slow calorie burning rates. No body is the same. I have a stick-thin friend who eats the world/eats nasty mcdonalds while I eat salads and I'm about 20 pounds bigger than her. I'm not fat but definitely not skinny so people do gain weight more easily than others.

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            • perfectxsilence

              True. My best friend's grandmother is a very large woman but still seems completely healthy. I think she's in her 90s now and she doesn't even use a cane and is always smiling.

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      • Tenderlovin

        This makes me sad, I've always been underweight..

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    • donotmockme

      My great grandmother was obese her entire life and is now 101 years old and still going healthy. Also, overweight people live longer..not obese but overweight by about 10-15 pounds. Second to that is average weight. I'm studying to be a fitness coach/nutritionist and this is something I was shocked about but it actually makes sense.

      The order of people who live longest to shortest is as follows:

      Overweight - they live 3-6 years longer than all weight categories.
      Average weight
      Borderline obese (only 2-3 pounds near 30 bmi)
      Underweight
      Obese/Morbid - they live the shortest

      If you want to learn more, you should google it. :) I enjoy educating people on health but can't write an essay, unfortunately.

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    • Ibelievethis

      I agree karma gets everyone. xx

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      • RoseIsabella

        Thanks.

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    • perfectxsilence

      Ha, I didn't even see this until now. I'm hypo too and am still struggling to lose weight. I lost about 4 pounds in the past 6 months and am about to give up as I've had this for 3 years now with no luck in getting my body back.

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  • allmylove

    yeah you seem like a bitch. its ok to disagree with being fat but to get rude by them isnt grow up. (also its funny you had to trhow out the fact that men looka t you seems like you like it and cant stand fatter people cuz of it

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  • Avant-Garde

    I try to tolerate them but, a lot of them do piss me off. For instance, on my mother's side, are relatives who come from the south and have ridiculously and, dare I say, disturbing eating habits.

    I don't know I'd they we're jealous of me or thought that I was a freak simply because the majority of them were fat, whereas I was very thin and had a very fast metabolism. The whole thing is weird but they treated me so horribly because if this discrepancy.

    I've noticed that there is or used to be, this hate movement by fat people towards thin people. Absolutely ridiculous.

    I have little to no sympathy and very thin tolerance towards the majority of them. I especially can't stand the ones who allow their children to be obese and then try to cover up their bullshit by claiming that being "big boned" runs in their family. It's poor parenting and child abuse. (They debated this once on Dr. OZ. I'll try to find the video.)

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  • MysticLane

    IIN that this post annoys me?

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  • perfectxsilence

    You are only annoyed with those individuals, not fat people as a whole.

    I'm dealing with hypothyroidism right now that came out of nowhere. I used to go for runs/walks and I did a cardio workout dvd every single day. I was fit to the core but then I had a bad break up/stressed a lot and all of a sudden, I started gaining weight. I went to my Dr and he said I was severely hypo. I gained about 35 pounds in a year thanks to this and I am mostly vegan in my diet and I don't eat a lot as is (average is 900 calories a day and always was). You better pray nothing happens to you but I do understand what you're saying about some people who eat a lot of garbage and keep stuffing their faces - it's a bit much/gross but let them do whatever they want.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Yes!

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  • WeirdMe

    fat people are disgusting. when you see a fatty and image this fatty to be naked, you want to throw up.

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  • WhatHasThisWorldComeTo

    okay so im not perfect and I know some people cant help it but I agree. Some of them just annoy the living crap out of me. I met a lady once that was just fat and I mean she was FAT like 300 pounds fat, she couldn't even walk she was so fat and it was all just because she was lazy. And the part that annoys me the most is that she was on government benefits because she was so fat she couldn't work. this kind of fat person makes my wish Hostess never went back into business, even though I do like a Twinkie occasionally.

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  • equitable75

    The more your annoyed by a persons weight the more likely you are to gain weight

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  • Negima93

    I wouldn't judge so openly, because karma is not something to mess with. I dislike when fat people in clothes that are way too small, or I worry for their health. But I'm not stuck up and snobby about it

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    You aren't talking about fat people you're talking about obese people, what about fat people like me, I'm more than chubby but less than obese, I don't waddle I walk ať a brisk pace and I don't take up isles or pathways, I often jog or walk but I do have a bit of extra padding, would I still annoy you?

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  • Fingersniffer

    Oh ya you know what also bugs me is when bigger ppk give me weird looks for not dousing my salads with half a bottle of full fat dressing or being able to turn down junk food or things that don't even resemble food. I mean c'mon just because I don't want to have a heart attack by 40

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  • Swan_Theif9854

    Sounds like you've had your fair share of bad experiences with the heavy-set. Could try being more assertive. There's nothing wrong with staying in shape, or eating what you like. If everyone was to show respect towards one another the world would be a hell of a lot happier. I hope your bad run-ins with them hasn't made you hate them as a whole. There are heavy-set people who are pleasant.

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  • Dr.Moe_Lester

    You describe yourself to perfectly... 50% chance of a troll... Any ways. Some people can't help it. Some people have some disease or something like that. How can anybody be so ignorant? You act as if being even the slightest bit overweight is a bad thing. I bet you would kill yourself if you gained weight.

    I really hate you kinds of people.

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  • Aries

    I do not get annoyed by "fat" people as you say considering there is no way to judge who should be what size . I only become annoyed with people who use their weight as an excuse card when they have no medical condition or reason not to be healthy . It can be off putting the scent of obese individuals as well however .. what you are talking about sounds to be more like a bunch of nonsense you conjured up in your own head . Who cares at what speed they run or what they say , you sound completely full of yourself .. very egocentric and self centred . The fact that you felt the need to mention your appearance or that you are hot or get "hooted" at by guys probably indicates more that you are not as attractive as you think you are and your ego is compensating .. you also sound very tiny .. and that can be annoying to some to see someone who looks like she is a starving bone rack and no matter how old she gets looks like a little girl ... it's a double edged sword you are handling and I think you are best to worry more about yourself and less about others if it's not directly affecting you such as a husband who eats and eats randomly and neglects his health where his life is now becoming unsafe and has no reason not to be conscious of it . With all this said we are in charge of our own life and not others . It seems more like a personal issue rather than an actual issue .. you should probably give your perspective and ego a check ... that's more unattractive and annoying than someone who isn't a size 2

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  • Holzman_67

    Whats stopping you from crossing the road and walking on the other side? Have I missed something here?

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  • flawdagirl

    lol

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