Is it normal i had this experience with a prostitute?

I recently broke up with my girlfriend and just had to get some immediately, so I went to a prostitute. While we were doing it she got REALLY into it. I asked her about it and she said I'm better than anyone else she knows in the city, and for as long as I can keep that up I can have her every night for free. I've been kind of a manwhore so I do have a few tricks, but I was surprised I did well even by a prostitute's standards. I went to her again the next night and, like she said, she didn't charge. This has been going on for several days now and she's started to let me kiss her (before that she had a strict "no kissing" rule). She's since admitted she's actually very inexperienced and doesn't see many men, and it's true, I've noticed she isn't "busy" as often as the others in the city. Last night, she also gave me her phone number so we can discuss appointment times in advance or other things if I really felt like it, which I think is a big act of trust for a girl who works on the street.

I've also been doing some research on her with the sources who know these sorts of things (I guess you tend to learn about these kinds of people when you socialize as much as I do), and apparently her story is she was kicked out of home and turned to prostitution just to get by, She's also relatively clean for a prostitute, having no addictions except cheap alcohol, but that might change for the worse over time. Sure, I could have asked her herself about all that instead of being a snoop, but do you really trust a prostitute to talk honestly about herself? Now before you get the wrong idea, I know it's silly to think a prostitute of all people would fall in love with someone, that's not what I'm thinking of. I know she does it just because she likes the way it feels and doesn't want to risk losing contact with someone who can pleasure her so well, and is doing what she thinks it takes to keep me coming. But I've never been with a prostitute before, it's mostly flings and one night stands. Has anyone else had an experience like this?

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  • This is actually turning into a sweet love story! If something else happens, please tell us!

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    • chatter289

      AGREED! tell us how it goes,... you've seen pretty woman right? haha.. if not, wathc it! EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND I BELIEVE IN THAT!

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    • AnneMartin

      Well people that are drug free generally do prostitution for the human contact or a way to deal with sex addiction. The reason many prostitutes have a no kissing rule is because your most sensitive nerves in your body are on your lips. When you kiss someone it tricks your brain into being emotionally involved with someone because of all the "feelings", it leaves an imprint on your brain of that person.
      Now prostitutes that do drugs get the same high that someone additiced to sex would but due to the drugs it blocks the feelings of sex, basically inhibiting them from making personal contact. Thats partially what distinguishes a high-end girl from a low-end call girl. The higher call girl will have a pseudo relationship and have less clients, but at the same time normally care for them more than the lower end one. That is partially why the higher end call girl charges more because you get not just sex, but an experience.
      I find your story interesting because it is normal for those in the higher end experience, but as shes doing it to get by, she might be minimally paid. This is normal in the prostitution world in some respects, however those low paid girls that get emotionally involved get their hearts broken and then turn to drugs in order to cope. It then turns into a cycle as they try to get by and afford their drugs.

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    • hahahahahah

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  • dappled

    What you should do is get Richard Gere to play you in a Hollywood film and get Julia Roberts to play her, and maybe commission some Swedish band to write a song for the film.

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  • 343Boy

    You're either a good fiction writer, or really lucky.

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  • Okay, since someone asked to keep you updated I'll inform you. We began chatting more about other things, and I guess she got really into it because she wanted me to talk to her during the day. She said it's the only contact she really gets with someone who isn't an absolute animal. I was surprised on how it seemed she was really getting into me. We also met during the day once because she wanted me to pick her up and take her somewhere. I was surprised how good she looked when she was wearing normal, basic clothes instead of her trashy clothes she wears as a prostitute. When I dropped her off she said "thanks honey", kissed me and got out before I could really do anything. Through the side window she looked at me for a few moments while smiling faintly then walked away. I'm starting to think she didn't even need a lift from me, she just wanted to see how I reacted to that. I didn't think as much of it before, but that was the point when I really realized something unusual is going on here. Then, two nights ago, when I came to see her, she looked at me for a few seconds like she was frozen then started to cry. I asked her what was wrong and she said I'll never accept her for who she really is because she's a prostitute. I said I wouldn't judge her for doing what she really needed to get by. She told me it was strange, but she wanted to be with me, and she would give up what she's doing now to do it. She said that at first she just loved the way I moved, but as she got to know me better she started to be interested in who I am, and that by seeing her outside of "work" I was giving her more of a chance than anyone else does. She said that I would never want to have anything to do with her, specifically she said I would never want to see her in a wedding gown once I saw her in a whore's outfit. I was almost floored by this description, her job is to sell herself and she does it damn well emotionally as well as physically. She then looked as she was considering something, then showed me test results from a health care center showing she had been tested for numerous STDs and is clean. She then tried to ask me something, choked on her own words a few times, and finally asked if I would consider letting her have a bigger part in my life if she would give up prostitution. (cont.)

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    • She told me she wasn't tied to a pimp and managed her own money, covering my biggest concern before I even voiced it. She asked me if I would at least let her spend some time with me. Because I'm fucked up and stupid, I felt as if I wasn't fully controlling myself but I told her she could sleep with me tonight and I'd figure out what to do tomorrow. Her face brightened up and she kissed me for several seconds, then she gathered her stuff and I took her home. Normally I would stop and wonder what the hell I just did, but I was in a good mood for some reason. When we had sex that night, we were kissing a lot more and I think it was more passionate than anything we had before. A friend once said about a relationship he was in that he stopped having sex and started making love, and I like that description. We fell asleep cuddling. I woke up today with her head on my chest. Normally people would freeze up and just ask themselves how they got into this situation, but I was content. I rubbed the smooth skin of her back and sides until she woke up. The first thing she did when she woke up is look at me with a big smile, and somehow it makes me think things are turning out all right. I made breakfast for her and tell her that since she was so well behaved she could stay another day. We've been together almost all day, neither of us has left the house or talked to anyone else. All we've been doing all day is talking, hanging out, cuddling, making out, and having sex as much as we could. I've never had sex so many times in one day, and rarely with so much passion. It was a very good day, for more than one reason. Now she's sleeping, and tomorrow I'm going to tell her she can stay for longer.

      If she's doing it for sex, she's very dedicated to it. But now I want to think I was wrong. Maybe a prostitute can fall in love, but I'm surprised at how fast it's all happening. What have I gotten myself into? And why can I not help but like where it's going? I think I don't know what I'm doing, but I don't care anymore. I'm either really lucky or being a big sucker. Thinking about it, it's just all really strange. If nothing else, she's the most interesting woman I've met in a long time.

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      • boston12

        y wouldnt a prostitute fall in love? is she not human? grow the fuck up.

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      • AnneMartin

        I think you got lucky and caught her when she just got in to the buisness. Most of the time low end prostitues are pretty messed up, I posted an earlier comment on the science behind your relationship and why it doesn't surprise me because of my knowledge of prostitution.

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  • soon she'll be paying you

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  • Ophelia2

    Ok so, am i the only one here that thinks this is COMPLETELY made up.

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  • sandinmyambergerbuns

    this is so sweet. you should keep updating. i am now hooked by the plot that is your life!!

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  • Awesome!!
    More updates!!

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  • big.z

    U should make up some stuff and write a book about it , using a fake name !! I would love to read it .. And it sounds like you got it figured out , it's good too hear '

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  • mumbum

    Wow, that is pretty intense ... I think as humans we are all vulnerable to falling in love.. We all have a need for meaningful intimacy. given her lack of experience she sounds genuine, and some people do get clingy straight away.. I would be more concerned about that side of things actually... Not letting her get too attached and make sure there are clear boundaries in your relationship. Have a break from each other and then see how things go. You are in an interesting situation there.. Keep us updated.

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  • amallama16

    Omg this is the most romantique thing that i've heard in a long time. Please write a book, i would love to read it. I tooam a person who found love in an unexpected place but love is love and it's the most amazing feeling. I wish you both the best. You sound like a cute couple.

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  • norm

    After reading this stuff, I have started to believe in Santa and the Easter Bunny all over again. Ain't life grand.

    Only hope they have is to move to another city. What is young Romeo going to do when they are out in public and a former "satisfied" customer pulls out a $20 and asks for a quickie? That's a real relationship booster, for sure!

    Good luck to this couple, they will need it. It's tough enough to make it long term without this kind of baggage.

    Wonder what kind of odds they would give this couple in Vegas?

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  • bra13vo

    so what if she's a prostitute? it's one of the oldest professions. every professions have their downsides. go for it! It's a 'Pretty Woman' story comes true for you

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  • Karina

    It's not normal, but it's romantic. Would you believe that I wrote a short story about this exact thing once? I did, but the girls' mom had cancer, so she became a prostitute solely to get money so her mom could afford chemo. She met the dude, who happened to be rich, and they fell in love at the first site. The guy wasn't a whore, but his fiance had cheated on him with his best friend while he was away at peace corps.

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  • sparklepop

    I so very much want to believe this...if it's true, never let her go.

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  • Jessie735513

    I guess I'm a softie- but this sounds like the beginning of a beautiful love story. If you feel a connection with her then never let her background get in the way of your feelings for each other.

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  • luckynj

    You may support her to get out of it and see how it goes.

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  • Dude36Git

    Good luck to the both of you friend :) (I hope you see this one day)

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  • asura

    Please give us more updates on this..

    You have a very intriguing story and I'm dying to hear more..

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  • If this is a true story... Nah, I'm sorry. I just dont believe this dude. It seems as if everything just worked out perfectly. A little too perfectly. She's STD free and didn't have a pimp? You also just happened to stumble into this relationship while being romantically available?

    I'm sorry. I want to believe you, but wow... This just seems unbelievable. You a writer?

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    • bookmaniac

      i'm with you...this is total con-artist crap. Decent writing though.

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      • Yeah dude. The OP is definitely a play-write :P

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  • Pink_bunny

    When I was reading the beggining I was thinking your kind of an ass. But as I kept reading on I couldn't stop smilling. Your so sweet for giving her a chance. I hope things work out for both of you.

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  • prostitutes are humans too, lol its not like your having sex with a dog, god . haha

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  • noodle76

    this is the plot of a story by elisha michins.

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  • clwnbby

    Almost positive this is the plot from Pretty Woman.

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  • deb

    Its sweet and wrong at the same time. But the sweetness overpowers the wrongness :]

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  • Appleflesh

    good luck man, i bet she is really pretty. that smile must be awesome..

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  • asura

    Wow!! More updates please! I wanna know more

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  • Tisgranum

    Prostitutes want boyfriends to. She might just be in it for the sex but might get attached like a poster above mentioned.

    I even remember a prostitute who kept getting angry when he man had sex with other women. It was a real relationship between the two of them.

    They are people to.

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  • Tisgranum

    lol, you traumatized some feminina's because you went to a hooker. Like if it's unheard of, lol

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  • luc3

    Can you please tell us how is going?

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  • Italain_princess19

    You probably saved her life. I saw this YouTube video about prostitution. It's crazy.... It's called the first night... Search for that or the user, miss_lindsy100 or misslindsy100.

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  • hokisgurl

    Well I've been prostituting myself and I have no pimp and I def don't have piercing and no Tats I don't have a bf. And this way of life you get a bf everynite

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  • dom180

    This is an awesome story, I enjoyed reading it. It sounds real to me, and it made me feel happy reading it. :)

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  • polkadot101

    Shes a person too she needs love everyone needs someone

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  • Jirgee

    Its absolutely normal and I'm happy 4 d 2 of u congrats

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  • secretwhisper

    just please dont trust her. she will probably just want to live somewhere safe and saw you. please dont take it the wrong way but i just worry that you will 'get together' a year down the line you come home to an empty flat kind of thing :/ x

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    • amunet

      are you a moron, it sounds like love and thats all there is to it i know lots of prostitutes but there perfectly good people, ive had a prostitute look after my kids for an entire week before i even left her my debt card so she could get money out. she didnt steel any or spend it on herself, some are good people and its bigoted twats like you that make them seem like lifeless drug addicted whores!!!!

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  • TotalAspie

    I don't really have anything to add, I just wanted to say that your story was heartwarming... Practically makes me wanna get a prostitute, except in my town, I'd be more likely to be getting a policewoman dressed in trashy clothes. :-D (And my Asperger's keeps me from meeting women in general; even the worst of the worst!)

    I'm presuming you (the story writer) live in a place where prostitution is legal, because all of the pictures I've seen of prostitutes to date didn't have on trashy clothes, and while there were some cute ones, they looked malnourished, and the sight of them with their clothes off made me go limp.

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  • emilydoll

    Tell her to stop whiting omgosh.

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  • Yarimang

    Im in a very similar situation and just have no idea what to do
    I first started visiting her because of a hard breakup, and thought it would help me get over it.
    I only requested her because I found her cute and nice...
    She had strict rule at first and progressively started dropping her barriers
    1. No kiss rule
    2. Phone number
    3. Extra service (free of charge
    4. Stay over free of charge (asking me to be the last customer)
    5. Then completely free of charge
    6. Asking to go on holiday with me , etc..
    She even invited me for diner in few occasion.

    I could feel she started getting attached and instarted to Feel better about my breakup.
    After some reflection and concerned where this whole situation was going, I suggested that I would no longer visit her... it was better to cut it short before stronger feeling grows.
    As soon as I mentioned it, she started crying, telling me that I was the only man that counted for her and never felt so strongly about someone etc...
    She said she was considering stopping her job, all she wanted was to be with me.
    That she wouldn't be a financial burden as she amassed a large amount of money and she could turn into her old job in finance (yep she's got a master)! Which wasn't paying as much but if it was required she wouldn't mind.

    As you can imagine I had a lot of trust issue, trying to separate her from her character. Started asking very personal question and I could sense that she was completely opening up and exposing herself. Showing me picture of her family, hometown, friends, LinkedIn account, Facebook account etc...

    I realised she was quite serious about us, while I don't understand the fact that she probably makes more money than I do, and considering her obvious interest in money that brought her to start that line of work despite she had alternative options.
    Im not even rich and never pretended to be....

    Anyhow, She keeps texting me, and ask me to spend the night over (free)
    We have great passionate sex/love, still I just can't imagine myself settling with her, though I've build quite a strong emotional bond with her.

    So when I read your story I totally can sense where you are coming from.
    But I still wonder how you got over all the stigma and issue that comes along.
    Friends, family, double life, trust, jealousy, reputation, etc...

    I was desparate to find answers, started posting but either I've been told it was part of her character or that I was watching too much pretty woman etc..

    H

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  • xoxochick

    That's kinda sweet she might have a crush on you

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  • Dfromthebottleariddleforu

    I almost/ going to ask you was this girl from ontario california maybe possibly if she was a few words might make a feel better but i read your story 2 and a half years after i feel as if i lost the love of my life a girl thay lived thousands's of miles away from me at first then came back to cali meeting via myspace when i was 19 was in a sense(my denial of things a prostitute of some sort/stripper never drove under 100mph a fast gurl for a a fast man a bonnie for a clyde that i fell so hard for ended up gettin drunk her hitting on my close friend leaving me high and dry at home to then hit up my homie 10min later for a light night ....yea but previously we had talked via internet for a year if not mote and had physical contact/realtions for another year after the fact but thay night i had felt betrayed toyed with all though i had known about her preciouse deeds but i didnt care , we talked about living together a future btw she had never introduced herself as a prostitue something i found out down the road but after this night of her contacting my homie i had quite talking to her for a few months and realized i couldnt stop thinking about this gurl wich has now been 2 plus years and i can not find her on any kind of social media as before now 4 years running this gurl on my mind aswell as the crucial fact till this day i have never had a girl friend im 22....idk wtf im even doing respinding yet searching for a familiar post on google must b the drank and the fact that ive been alone and the inly gurl that could truly c me and accept me for who i am.........ne ways

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  • Austalien

    PC are you Australian, Sounds like the average banshee to me, They are like this when there imported here ^_^ Freedom to do what we want worth dying for right >.<

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  • Austalien

    I would love this to happen to me, Free sex from a gal that knows how to satisfy me, Your lucky :)

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  • MaximusXXX

    Most prostitutes have boyfriends. Surprise, surprise they usually meet them early on in their careers.

    The reason is quite simple, protection.

    You don't have to be a pimp but if she ever has some serious trouble she has someone to turn to. Obviously she wouldn't charge you to protect her.

    Prostitutes are people too and they need to have some sense of security.

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  • ben&jerry<3

    PRETTY WOMAN!!

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  • JoMama123451234

    Sketchy story... But it is a truly amazing one (especially if it's true). I need proof. Maybe a picture or something...

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  • are you still together though?

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  • wait so what happend????? are u still with her?

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  • lovelyfun91

    Good for you. You are a good guy and she knows that. At this point its smooth sailing so i wish you both the best of sucsess. I was involved myself with sugar daddies but never working on the street like that but still its looked down upon. I fell in love with one of my last daddy and we are planning to get married next year. THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE WHEN THERE IS LOVE

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  • Savmagic

    You are a liar I've read other posts from you

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  • noitsnotnormal5

    sounds like you stole the theme of "pretty woman"...would this prostitute's name happen to be julia roberts?

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  • Ark

    I know you said no more updates but I'm really curious how things worked out for yall :)

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  • Sweetz

    This would definately make a good book or movie. Im on the app so i dont really know how old this post is but id really like to hear more about this if possible :)

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  • freebee

    Lucky fucker I must be doing something wrong I still have to pay

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  • randomjelly

    Shit...that's pathetic.

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  • happymamaa

    One in ten people have HIV and don't even know it...just saying...be careful who you sleep with!

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    • bookmaniac

      if THEY don't know it, how do YOU?! that stat is such bullshit.

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  • emilydoll

    Whoring

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  • moomus

    Well if you are happy to be with someone who fucks other men then go for it. Smacks of desperation if you ask me.

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  • Bananas0053

    Randomjelly speaks the truth

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  • Suckyy5dolaaa

    As long as she lets you lick the pooper id marry the bitch ;)

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  • Some people are so easily conned.

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  • TheBoss92

    .....well this is depressing

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  • TyLee

    Wow you are so pathetic! Words really cannot describe how much of a pathetic loser that you are so I won't even bother trying.

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    • Legion

      wow, congratulations, normally, a relationship with a stripper or prostitute can be a problem due to her experiences.they tend to see the worst in men because most of their clients are complete assholes, and they tend to have problems if they ever have a loving relationship.

      luckily you you two, since she isnt very experienced, she doesnt seem to have that problem. hope it goes great for you two!

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  • Why the hell did I get thumbs down for question the authenticity of this post?
    Fuck off.
    You can go ahead and thumbs down this post bitch!

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  • Ok as a pimp I wod b pissed there is no kissing and no socialization out side the fuck! That's y I get my girls thru contract!

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