Is it normal i hate my mother

For years "mom" has gone thru my stuff and taken / thrown it away, sometimes while i was at home even. she mostly waited till i would be gone somewhere tho, im 22, and i really am trying to find a job, but a couple of weeks ago she took me to a homeless shelter, and dumped me, saying
"i can't afford you."
And i 100% promise i was job searching!!
So then thank god i was able to call a family member who came and got me, so now i live with them instead!
But not even to begin to mention all the abuse she put me thru, all the times i wasnt "fast enough" or whatever enough i would get kicked mostly!
So just recently i tried to get some of my shit back from her, and she has asked me to not contact her or "grandma blake" ever again, well i then said something along the lines of "i hope you like the feeling of having alienated your only daughter." And was also like "good bye" as i walked out, of that house for the last time!.
I hate my "mom", is that normal??