Is it normal i hate the bisexual agenda?

The "everybody is bi" thing is rude and shitty, yeah. It really bothers me when I hear other bisexual people say that. But the flip flopping thing is just a (very insulting) stereotype, so please stop spreading it.

Personally i understand where you are coming from.

I dislike when others try to decide what someone else's orientation is, or has to be. I also dislike it when people try to act like there is absolutely no level of choice in the matter. To me that's along the same lines as trying to shove others into labels and telling them they're not allowed to ever change because ... well then it would go against their own belief that it's all completely biological. Or that people take it as a personal attack should you not completely agree with their own ideas on the matter.

who said every one is bi till he make his own decision to be straight or gay .. that sounds like "nothing is bi"
It's only a transitional stage and not a sexual identity
No we all born this way " straight , gay , bi ,asexual .."
and if we want to discover doesn't mean we are bi it means we are discovering (simply) ... how can asexual say i was bi before i discover i am asexual it sounds silly .. he was discovering but he is asexual from the beginning ..
it is the same with all .. you may just know ur sexual identity and u don't have to discovers anything so it is simply that ur identity is so clear to you and you didn't get through the discovering stage..

Where are the links that "prove" all this garbage you are spouting? Links to these things you have read?

You sound like you have no idea what you are talking about, I have never heard any of this from bisexual people. Go ahead and show me that what your talking about is correct.

Hate is a strong emotion. Why does something that doesn't have anything to do with you (you are not bi, right) muster up such an intense emotion in you? What are you afraid is going to happen if people subscribe to the "bisexual agenda"?

Oh and sorry for the misspellings my tablet is cracked and the touchsceen is inpretty bad shap.

Actually this guy is 't straight. Straight men would never have this much of an issue as straight men aren't encouraged to have sex with men. That whole widespread homophobia thing. Even in the queer community it's not encouraged for men to be bi, that's why so few bi men come out. No, this is just more garden variety biphobia from a gay man who also has latent misogyny and internal homophibia. Quite the mixture of toxicity. I also smeel some fairly conservative political leanings as well. Just your run of the mill,person with internal struggles projecting them externally onto others instead of going to therapy and working them out. Nothing to see here. Just made up strawmans. Move on.

Oh look. It's a straight man getting upset because he's been forced to momentarily face a fraction of what LGBT people face for most of their lives (Being told that your gender or sex identity is not real).

I wept.

I agree that I don't thin keveryones bi sexual.. but you're just hating. Chill out, so you're not bi. Neither am I, but we don't have to go hating on people who are..

I dont think that everyone is bisexual, but I dont think of sexuality as "you are either straight, bi, gay, whatever." I see more of a scale. you can be more, less, or equally attracted to a certain gender than another. it is possible to be completely one way or the other, but a lot of people fall somewhere in between. Some people probably use it as a stepping stone, but probably cause they feel a real attraction to the opposite sex, then they feel more attracted to the same sex, but still feel attracted to the opposite, just less than before, and finally, almost no attraction to the opposite sex, and vice versa. also, how attracted you are to one or the other can change. Curiosity is normal for humans, for sex, love, and stuff not related to this at all (ex: what are aliens like?)

Sexuality is too complex to easily put into categories. The only thing I can say for fact, is you cant consciously decide what you are attracted to, you can choose your partner, but you cant choose how attracted you are to someone. its just who you are

Haha, "bisexual agenda". They're not an organised group, you know :P

RANT

I think it's more accurate to say that nobody has a fixed sexual orientation. Sexual preference, yes, but I don't believe anyone who has a drive for sex is absolutely 100% completely entirely exclusive to one sex (you're free to disagree with that). The word most people know which is closest to describing that is "bisexual", but I think when people use the word that way it's a corruption of the term. Pansexual is probably closer to that, because the terms implies ignoring the sex or a partner and not seeing it as important (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070921020410AADaJcN). It's a subtle difference to a lot of people. I think a lot of people could be described as pansexual but don't identify with the term because they've never heard of it. Hell, even *I* could be better described as pansexual then any other sexuality, but I've identified with the term. I don't know why that is, maybe because it isn't a helpful term to a lot of people if you're describing sexuality.

I can understand the need of someone who feels different or confused or scared to define themselves as an orientation because it gives them security and safety to know "who they are", but don't even think sexuality even exists in the sense that we usually describe it.

/RANT

So yeah, I think it's wrong in the sense of false and wrong in the sense of immoral to say "everyone is bisexual". I think it's a misuse of the word "bisexual", and I think what they usually mean is that fixed sexualities, like heterosexuality and homosexuality are illusions because they are absolute terms, and sexuality, like everything else, does not lend itself to the absolute. I DO believe THAT.

EDIT: In fact, just to prove "everyone is bisexual" false, what about people only attracted to non-human animals? They're not bisexual. Bisexual also implies two sexes ("bi"), but what about people who identify as the "third sex"? People attracted to them aren't bisexual either.

Well assholes are always going to be assholes.

But the reason that people say that is that it's being found that more people are at least slightly bisexual than not. I wouldn't judge anyone for being only straight or only gay, but if someone was worried they were having attractions to a gender they're not normally attracted to, I would respond to them that sexuality is a fluid thing and that it's more than normal for them to feel that way.

This is probably a troll post anyway, but yeah.

"I mean before they had gay and straight. Now they have pansexual and about 7 other terms they created in past years"

Here's a fun little bit of information. The word homosexual didn't exist before the 1950's. They used other words of course like sodomite or saphic but that was the olden times. The word "gay" was used by the homosexual community because they hated the word homosexual. In the 50's "homosexual" was treat like a disease. "Straight" was also created by the gay community because they didn't like that heteros referred to themselves as normal.

People can be attracted to more than just men and women. There are also people attracted to transexuals or intersex. Some people are attracted to all body types, they get called pansexual. The intersex (people with ambiguous genitalia) didn't come to light until the 90s.

What I'm trying to show you is this look into sexuality and gender identity is all pretty fucking new. So don't knock it down so quickly. Pansexuality is a real thing. Bisexuality is a real thing. Stop being an asshole. Yeah i don't believe that everyone is bi but like I said the study of sexuality is a new thing, people make mistakes.

Saying bi people flip flop is offensive. They don't flip between which genders they find attractive. A bi girl could be dating another girl but that doesn't mean she stops finding men attractive. She doesn't stop being bi and become a lesbian when she dates a girl.

Ok, look. When you have a group of people face prejudice for their sexual orientation, and you're not part of that group, complaining about how you believe that group thinks and acts is a bad idea. Talking about the specific people who've said something hurtful or something you disagree with is fine. But it's not your straight ass's job to come here and tell us (especially those of us who are bisexual) about the problems you have with bisexuals. Doing so is extremely hurtful and stigmatising.

Your post is nothing new to me, because I've had to deal with attitudes and misconceptions like yours for my entire life. Next time, just punch me in the face.

What's your sexual orientation.