Is it normal i hate when my girlfriend wears revealing/slutty clothes

My girlfriend goes to a different high school. She has big boobs, a nice ass, and a curvy body. And I always tell her not to wear certain things because they make her look slutty or are a little too revealing. I guess it is mostly because i don't want other guys to give her a lot of attention and i hate other girls that dress slutty.

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  • prefernoname

    no need to show off when being in a relationship

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  • Fozmula

    If you don't like how she dresses, you can express that to her, but it's ultimately her decision and it's a silly thing to have much of a problem with.

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  • kittyg7113

    Try to empathize with her motives. Maybe she really does just enjoy dressing this way (and if so, that's how she is - you can't change her, and shouldn't). But most likely, she feels like she NEEDS to do this to get some kind of validation that she's attractive and wanted. I would avoid directly criticizing her, and insteaad, focus on making her feel better about herself. Compliment her when she dresses more modestly and tell her that it allows her true beauty to be displayed when she's not wearing distracting clothing. Also, make sure there aren't double standards coming into play. For example, and I have no way of knowing if you're doing this, but don't flirt with other girls all day at school and then expect her not to display some competing behavior.

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  • FaeryGirl89

    What makes you think that just because your her boyfriend that gives you the right to tell her what to wear? It dont. If you trust her then let the issue go becaue its not worth the drama. If you don't trust her then that is a whole other problem and has nothing to do with what she wears.

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    • dredsec

      If you had a boyfriend who left the house shirtless would you be fine with that? If you had a daughter who dressed as slutty as can be, would you be fine with that? Yes you are correct, he does not have the right to control what she wears, but he is concerned like any other boyfriend would be when his girlfriend is exposing her body a little too much. In the boyfriends mind, he will believe that his girl is dressing like that to attract other men, which then will turn into a bigger problem than it is. Plus, it has nothing to do with trust. It is the utter protection that the boyfriend is trying to give. He does not want any other man to look at her and think of perverted ideas.

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    • kartal_

      Why wear revealing clothes when you have a boyfriend??

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  • JenAus1217

    I can't think of a reason that this is abnormal.You are just being protective and possessive. Looking too revealing can be provocative, and you surely don't want your girlfriend to get into trouble or danger. And as her boyfriend, you don't wish the other guys keep paying attention or staring at her, which totally makes sense. By contrary, it would have been abnormal if you wanted your girlfriend to wear less in order to show off.

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  • zchristian

    I dont like girls that dress that way sadly i see many off them...

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  • kartal_

    This is a problem I've been having with my girlfriend for some time, now. The thing is, if you're not thinking of something serious with her, (like marriage) don't even bother. Just enjoy the relationship until it ends. But if you're serious with her, do whatever you need to do, show her that you mean it (DO NOT be violent), let her know that you want a future with her. That's what I did which worked.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Yeah I like them in burqas.

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  • Fallon12

    It is probably normal for you to feel uncomfortable with they idea that your GF might be getting more attention with more revealing clothes on. And you might wonder if she is deliberately seeking attention through her clothes. But you should be very careful with commenting on it. You might have very different opinions of what is slutty and so on, and if this is the way she always dress then you should be even more careful. If you went in to this relationship with her dressing this way already then you can't really expect her to change all of a sudden. Because if it is become a problem for you now then why wasn't this a problem before you started dating. Also if she has big breasts then it might be difficult for her to find tops that doesn't't reveal to much. Girls with smaller boobs can get away with low cut tops all the time because they normally don't get a cleavage. And trust me if you have bigger boobs then finding those tops that dosn't reveal to much without being full on turtle neck is quite difficult to find. And the important thing is that she needs to feel good about herself. I get that it can be difficult to not get ideas if she gets a lot of attention. But you need to trust her, you are both in this relationship together remember. Treat her well =)(and remember that sometimes we girls dress up pretty to impress our boyfriends, not everybody else)

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  • ME_LikeTurtles

    Im the same way.
    And its really hard to trust her.:/
    But if you keep a
    Gppd eye on her and talk to her friends and people who see her than it should help

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  • Crudhouse

    Forget the idiots that tell you that you don't have the right to feel what you feel. Most people agreed with you so you aren't really off the mark.

    Most kids are attention whores, but that wears off when they hit the mid-20s when they realize that no one wants to be with a slut or anyone that looks like a slut. Just hope it's a phase.

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  • firefly88

    Get over it faggot or don't have a gf

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    • kartal_

      You're the kind of dude whose girlfriend fucks other dudes I assume?

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  • FluffieBunnie

    Yes, it's normal. But she's a teenager. If you tell her you don't like it, she'll probably do it more.

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  • Can you send me some pictures?

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  • Ramit10

    It wouldnt bother me. I trusted my gf that she wouldnt do anything with another person but I liked it when she would show off cause all the guys wish they had her but couldnt have her cause they knew she was mine

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