Is it normal i have had this kind of dreams about my ex bf?

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I broke up with my ex boyfriend 3 and a half years ago.
We liked each other when we were 13 years old and "dated" 4 years, but he was not my boyfriend so in those 4 years we dated a few more people but nothing serious and we always end up together. When I turned 17 he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. We went to different schools and changed so much so I felt like I didn't knew him anymore so we broke up when we had 1 and a half months.
The strange thing that people don't believe me is that we never kissed. We're from Mexico so it's not well seen that you kiss a guy if he's not your boyfriend and the month and a half that he was my boyfriend he never made a move or something and I was so shy that I never tried to kiss him.
Now I'm 20 years old and been with this wonderful new guy since 2 years and 8 months and in that time I have never dreamed about my ex until a month ago.
The dream is always the same but in different places. In my dream I broke up with my actual boyfriend and my ex boyfriend tries to console me and he stars flirting with me.

I don't know what this means, I don't have any kind of contact with my ex so I don't know why I keep having this dreams. Please tell me what you think about my situation!

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  • texasqueen81
    8 years ago

    Ok this is going to sound CRAZY - I was with a guy for 6 years - from age 17 to 23. I met my future husband 6 wks after I left aforementioned guy. I have been married over 20 yrs and I still have dreams of the last guy between 3 to 4 times a week. I have seen a therapist but to no avail. So to me (being the extreme) this is totally normal. Just so you'll know the boyfriend was a complete A hole and my husband has treated me like a queen from the first day we met. I don't get how I could still dream about this person.

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  • Lariii
    8 years ago

    I don't know why, maybe you're somewhat comparing them to each other in your mind. I would just try not to dwell on these dreams, and hope they go away soon.

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