Is it normal i like jacking off with my friend?

It happened when we both watched porn when we were high school juniors and seniors. the first time, he was gonna crash at my house and at 1 in the morning when my family was asleep I pulled out a porno that I took from my dad. It was a threesome two girls and a guy. We played it in the basement and the volume was at like 10 because we didn't wanna get caught by my parents. It was so hot that I was like "I gotta start jacking off" He said to go ahead then a few minutes after I started to he too pulled his pants down and starting doing it. I'd get distracted from the porno and stare at him jacking off for a few sec. That also got me horny so I would look at the porno for a while then I'd look at him and kept doing that back and forth. He was gasping when he came and I looked over to see him cum and it was hot I started to cum too. Right when I came he looked over at me too and stared at me cumming. I got up and went to go clean myself in the bathroom. I wouldn't have said that was gay at all. I mostly looked at the porno and only stared at his dick for less than 30 seconds altogether. he only stared at me for like 10 seconds. when i came back to the couch he was dead asleep with his pants down so i covered him with a blanket so if my parents went down there they wouldn't find him exposed. I took the porno and went quietly into my parents room and put it in the drawers i found it in. We started to do this often whenever we wanted to jack off. Then a year later we started hanging out again only this one time he asked if we could sit right next to each other because "it's hot to look at each other cum" I tried it and i liked it but he started touching me knee after another time we did it. I told him not to. at the very least i only let him put his arm around me. but then soon he kept touching my legs or stomach while i came. I liked it a lot so we started to touch each other. we never touched each other's penises. sometimes he'd lay his head on my shoulder while he came and his breaths were very audible next to my ear. it got me hot. Once his hand got to close to my dick and I said "no no don't touch me." I wouldn't ever want him to jack me off because that would be like gay sex. I think now he is starting to become attracted to me but I don't like him that way. I just like jacking off. I'll be okay with him if he started liking me but I prefer that that doesn't happen.

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  • davesumba

    So jacking off sitting right next to another guy while watching each other is okay, but when he puts his hand on you is where you draw the line, okay guy. Just let him blow you and close your eyes.

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  • postie22

    If you jack off together while watching porn, and find it hot when he touches you and when you watch each other cum, you are not 100% straight. Sorry, but I hope you come to terms with your sexuality soon. Don't be ashamed to admit that you are bisexual or gay! It is completely normal.

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    • It don't matter what you call it. When he touches you you grab his cock you know you both like it.Once you try his cum you'll love it!

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  • powerpoe

    seems to me you;re a homophobic homosexual. Cuz, no, it's not normal for guys to jack off together, not for straight guys atleast. So if I were Id stop this shit, or just admit to yourself that you are indeed gay, because there's nothing wrong with being gay, and ingoring your homosoexual side, will only bring you sadness furhter on in life

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  • quentari

    First, there is nothing wrong with being gay. There is nothing wrong with having gay sex, even just the once as an experiment.

    I personally find it odd that people masturbate in the same room as each other, but I have a lower self confidence and higher sexual maturity than most of my friends.

    If you wanna keep masturbating together with the minimal touching that's fine, tell your friend before you have your next session. Let him know you aren't interested in him, or any man, in that way BUT that you don't mind/won't judge him if he is

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  • 62cat

    It is normal!

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  • Lottawood4u

    Nothing wrong with jacking with buds!

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  • I think it's great if I was you I wouuld slowly reach over and gently touch his cock and play with it. It won't be long and you will have his cock in your mouth, sucking his cock will be a great step and you will love it!

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    • Wantscum

      I agree with you on that. If he went for my cock while we were jacking off, I would hold it until he had it and I would ask him if I can jack him off.

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  • inluck1991

    I'd say it's relatively normal. I bet more guys than you think have done jacked off with each other, but just afraid to admit it. It would be classified as homoerotic behavior, not homosexual. It definitely doesn't make you gay.

    People swing in different ways. Your buddy may be willing to swing a bit gay. If you're not comfortable/interested in going any farther, then don't. Tell him what you said; you like jacking off, but don't want to do anything else. If you make that clear, I think you should be fine. You don't need to assume his intention, just let the boundary be known.

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  • Wantscum

    Call me what you want, but I would jack off with a guy in the room. Not a friend though, a guy that is like me and just don't care. I love women and pussy. I also like to see a dick, no balls no kissing from the guys. Just the dick. White and shaved. I would sit beside a guy as we jacked off and I would ask if we can jack each other off until we came. I'll let him cum on me if he does the same. Then a girl can come lick us clean. Call me whatever, but I would do it. I'm actually bi-curious. No attracted to guys but I do like shaft and head only.

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  • pjsr

    It's very common. According to the Hite Report on Male Sexuality (a large study of over 7,000 men and boys), 43% of men said said they had masturbated with other males as teens. The response from almost half was that the guy had done only what you and your friend do - he had masturbated in the same room.
    Just over half, the guy had masturbated another boy's penis or had his penis masturbated by the other boy (usually both of course)
    What's most important to you, probably, is that neither group was any more likely to be gay as adults than the guys who never masturbated with friends.
    That was my personal experience as well. My best friend and I used to do it every sleepover for years. We seldom had porn, but we'd talk about girls and what we hoped to do w them. I'd give him a massage and jack him off at the end. Then we'd trade places.
    He and I both are straight as adults. The same is true of about a half dozen other friends I did it with at least once.

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  • snjplzr

    Mutual masturbation among males is a big trust issue. Men treasure their penis. If you can let your male friend masturbate you to ejaculation then that person is your best best friend. No you're not gay. I know crazy, but you're not. Men are territorial and when they can let another man enter their "treasure room" then that man is their best friend. It is a sign of ultimate bonding friendship for life. You can still have a wife - that is a even deeper bond.

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  • Thatgirlintheback

    Don't be scared, if it feels good, do it! Who cares

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    • Wantscum

      I agree!! If it's behind your own doors, fuck what people say.. They should try it. I'll let a guy jack me off and if he wanted to, i would let him suck the cum from my cock as he jacked me off. And I, myself would return the fav.

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  • buzzybimaybe

    heres the way i see it I think that jacking offwith another man is not gay at all until you start touching each other and sucking each other off Nexus turns on then fucking each other so it's all bad like that was jacking off in the same room yes that's awesome I do it all the time with my best friend yes I I like to see him cum is a big turn-on he also watches me cum so yes the awesome watching porn with your best friend stroking your cock until you blow your load in front of him and him in front of me no we've never touched each other we'll cuz we are not gay but I have fucked a different dude but that was a very long time ago and I was high on meth and drunk that's my excuse

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  • Flaze

    It's obvious you want to have sex, if it feels right, then do it.

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  • kingsleycrowne

    holey moley
    right now I have this expression on my face
    like a rabbit caught in the headlights

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