Is it normal i'm in love with someone i've never met?

I saw a couple that chated for 20 yrs.... They lived in different countries. They finally met and were married in a week. Married for yrs now. So it can happen. Also I had someone like that ... Then met him in person.... Didn't like the way he smelled. And had no real attraction even though hw was cute. So don't get ur or his heart wrapped up just yet.

Thanks for the advice:) I want to meet up with him but he does live to far away, I know for sure I'm in love with him, noone else makes me feel as happy as he does:\

In my opnion I find that a little naive... but I don't think that you can be an like ACTUAL LOVE with this guy, he just makes you really happy because he makes you feel good about yourself. And for all you know he could be a pedo, so make sure your careful and don't give him any information, and if you're going to meet him make sure it starts off with a group of friends first.

MSN? This is SO contemporary...

I think it's possible to be in love with someone you haven't met in real life. I think that you should just make sure he isn't some type of Pedophile in real life. People lie about themselves to get younger girls. To me, distance doesn't matter, as long as you REALLY love them. Just be careful. I hope you two are happy together. <3

u think that's fucking weird? IVE BEEN IN LOVE WITH A CELEB WHO IS LIKE 40 YEARS OLD AND IT HAS LASTED FOR ALMOST A YEAR!
he is the first guy i ever noticed. compared to the guy i met online, he is like god.. and the guy i met online..
is a piece of shit.. -_-

yea give it time let all ur doubts out first n then go for the real deal with safe like ur girlfriend or brother,cuz faisoly is right those relationships mostly do fail,same happened here,the girl i was meetin was in real a bitch the kind of girl i cant stand at all, like some ppl say someone u never met is all u ever wanted him to be

oooh its happened to me so much :L

oh:\ i really don't want this to happen between us, but he's got me now, I'm in love and I can't fall out just like that

OP, proceed with caution. Meet him and spend time with him in person (in different public locations). Get to know him, and take leahquestions' comments into consideration. Only after you feel confident that you've spent enough time getting to know him and feel as comfortable with him in person as you did over the phone/internet should you begin to relax with him.

best of luck to you!

let me tell you my story... I met a man on a date site , hadn't dated except once with an old bf for 3 yrs.. thought Id try it== been single 7 yrs. we clicked right away , he lived 7 hrs away. we started phone talk for a year and a half and yes we were madly in love with eah other, same likes and dislikes etc...he would disappear and not answer the texts or calls sometimes for a couple of weeks at aa time, both times we were to meet he backed out. I finally had to meet him and I drove up there.... He talked better on the phone and was very quiet in person. This man was wealthy, muscular 3 kids and seemed to have it all. We dated for 6 months , saw each other every other weekend... The last time I saw him he had sked me to move in and get married--- 4 days later ended it and I broke out with herpes 2...... i knew he had seen other women in the end , I didn't.... Whether he gave it to me, too many coincedences or whether I had it prevously is highly suspicious but possible who knows. But I do know this... he said a lot of things but never came threw on them.He told me his love was unconditional then threw me away like a piece of trash.He deserted me completely and left me heartbroken HE was a bit vain and had a better than thou attitude because of status I think.... I love him still and always will the part I saw but the complete package was not what I thought it was..... never will I do any long distance relationships-- some men are better on the phone and can tell you anything because for one-- they might not be all that in bed, voyuers and prefer the phone, for two there are secrets that they don't want you to see.... that's why they prefer long distance...one more thing they could very well be bisexual, have habits or expressions that you can't see unless in person..... so be very careful................ no more long distance for me, it was a harlequin romance, emotionally that I tried to make a reality but it only went one way..........

It does happen to people. I think it is possible for two people to fall in love like if you's both are being 100% truthful about who you's are. Just talk and try to meet up someday.

Can't you meet him in person too or is he too far away?

Online Relationships Fails Mostly so gO to REAL LIFE AND Have sex with your Neighbor

Ummm... Rapist much? Ever seen the dude on a webcam or anything?