Is it normal i no one wants to be my friend on facebook?

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no one ever adds me on facebook, yes its not the end of the world, but i don't have many on facebook friends and i have a real tough time meeting people in general, people do seem to want to hang out with me and be my friend but i just feel like no one seems to want to add me on there and as silly as it may sound it puts my self esteem down, because it makes me wonder why... i very very rarely add people myself because i've added people i thought i was on good terms with and they have declined me so now i never add anyone as it actually hurts my feelings..

and there is no reason for them to be embarrassed or not want me on there btw, i'm a normal person.. incase you think that, anyone else had this experience?

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Based on 11 votes (10 yes)
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  • itachi_uchiha
    5 years ago

    So what I have somewhat 600 friends on fb & I barely know 100 so fb friends doesn't matter real friends does if you want I will add you

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Facebook is trash. Don’t worry about it.

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    • Caspersghost
      5 years ago

      I agree facebook is trash.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Omg I just wanted to comment the exact same thing

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  • geek_god_101
    5 years ago

    No friends on Facebook? Delete account and walk outside to speak to neighbor. Problem solved.

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  • Sleepkrib
    5 years ago

    Sure, of course it is acceptable after the Facebook data mining scandal(https://www.cyclonis.com/how-to-keep-information-private-facebooks-data-mining-scandal/). Many people claim to delete their facebook in case that what FB pushes them would change their mind everytime they make decisions.

    If you want no friends on your facebook and they can't scoop what you are interested, you are safer than other.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    You should fill out the "about" section as much as possible. You don't have to put your birth year in if you don't want to. Add some interests. Add some photos or memes that express your interests and political leanings and so on.

    I always search those things when someone sends me a friend request. If I don't think we have much in common I delete their request. I have about over 800 friends. I am getting to the point of having to weed out my friends list to something more manageable. Good luck.

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    • lordofopinions
      5 years ago

      Have you tried SENDING friend requests? Read comment above.

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  • Yaboi
    5 years ago

    I mean you could have AT LEAST one. You're basically saying everyone on Facebook is a terrible person, which is definitely NOT normal. Just try to make AT LEAST one friend.

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  • SammyStarts
    5 years ago

    If you want friends don't use Facebook. Facebook is trash. Mostly old people and people talking to family use it. Trust me. Go to Twitter or something.

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  • AdkaHere
    5 years ago

    Don't care about Facebook friends. Real life friends are better, even if they don't add you on Fb.

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  • Mark92
    5 years ago

    Facebook is old and overrated, get real friends and hang out with them and enjoy life, facebook is just a waste of time...

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    I have friend requests that I never accept, because I feel like I failed at life, and I don't want people to know.

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    • itachi_uchiha
      5 years ago

      Don't ever think that you failed in life. I am not saying this to make you feel good or anything you will probably think that some asshole's advice is not gonna be your reality but trust me people tend to become what they believe,they think
      So stay +ve
      BTW I used to think you were the most cheerful person on iin well bummer

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        I try be helpful and cheerful on here. I'm just not that happy with where I have gone I my life I haven't worked in my field of study in many years. I'm not only depressed and anxious, but my health has steadily deteriorated in the past ten years.

        This place actually does cheer me up though, it makes me laugh.

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        • itachi_uchiha
          5 years ago

          I am telling you again don't think that your life has gone to hell you are anxious & depressed coz you feel it but what if there are other options then these I am damm sure you wouldn't choose depression,I know its easier said then done but you can give it a try even for a day. just choose that you won't feel depress today. empty your mind with these -ve thoughts & fill it with +ve.
          & yeah most of the posts here are funny

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  • Goldengoat
    5 years ago

    I've had my facebook account for 3 years and I've never had anymore than 3 friends on it (all family members). Facebook is meaningless. As long as you have friends to hang out with in real life then you're fine.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    I never got into facebook. Sorry you are feeling bad about it. Shut it off and just make real friends instead of people you never actually talk to.

    There is nothing wrong with you, people are just mindless jerks sometimes.

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