Is it normal i think they add classes to deal with retarded people?

Is it normal I think they should ask classes to deal with retarded children in school? I have gotten in trouble a couple of times for not knowing how to deal with retarded children when I went to high school or middle school and I thought one day why do they not make classes for any of this stuff?

I mean they expect regular students to be able to deal with slow kids and they are not equipped. When I was back in middle school yes a long time ago. I got in a fight with a slow girl however she was huge tall big and I was way smaller than her. She started badmouthing me in class one day for no reason. We had prior to this had been friends and I was nice to her.

So I ignored the badmouthing which was encouraged by the class and this was in an elective class I might add. After ignoring the name calling I left the class in a hurry trying to avoid any trouble. She pushed me into a door and started hitting me. Than walked away.

I was angered by this and fought back hitting her in the head after she walked away and jumping on her back till I was pulled off by a teacher who’s classroom we fell into. The counselor who spoke with me wanted to lock me away for being criminally insane they told me it was all my fault since I was not mentally challenged like the other girl.

I mean if this is such a issue why do they not have classes to teach regular students how to deal with slow children? I was suspended 3 days and her only one since I was the bad guy here. I mean it is not my fault am I suppose to be hurt because they are slow?

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  • dappled

    You make a good point. There are plenty of situations in life that we struggle to deal with and where a little bit of experience or knowledge would help. Where else better than school to get that knowledge? I agree with you.

    Maybe the idea could be expanded and the class could be about life skills in general, including some of the kinds of things people ask about here. It's important stuff, knowing how to handle yourself. It can shape your life way more than any other qualification.

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    • geek_god_101

      Another thing public schools could use along with life skills classes are classes on how to cope with tense situations and dealing with other people as a whole.

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      • tentacleTherapist

        I KNOW. But they don't instead they let the kids fuck themselves up on the internet and then we end up with depressed little fucks

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    • thankyou dapple for that bright and well thought out reply. You are a very smart fellow.

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  • (anonymous:)

    Ive been in that similiar situation before. I really despise how in many of my normal classes, they allow mentally handicapped peoples aids to literally do the work for them. For example, a community chemistry class, which isnt regents level chemistry so it is easy, there was this one girl i recall, she was socially just like everyone else and could spell and write completely fine. Yet, she had N aid with her at all times. Her aid would take all her notes for her while she listened to her ipod, she would do her work, give her every answer and the teacher would have to come over to tell the aid the girl would be right. To me, this was just pure laziness. Yet on a different note, there are those who are so slow, they slow the class down. English is my strongest subject and yet they always put me in these "mixed classes". These mixed classes put the exceptionally well with the extremely slow, this "integration" does not suit either sides and from my experience i have missed out on simple high school experiences. In my opinion not everyone is suited for "normal" classes. And information about a mentally handicapped student should be provided if they must be in classes with normal functionig students, but i still stand my ground where classes should be different and if someone were attackin me, i would defend myself no matter what.

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  • Dad

    People who have mental handicaps or intellectually challenged should either have an aid with them constantly, or all people who may come in contact with them, should be informed before hand.

    You were punished because you did not know?
    In their words: 'it was all your fault since you were not mentally challenged like the other girl.'
    No one informed (or educated) you to provide 'special' treatment for this girl. Maybe even YOU require special treatment and NO one presently knows yet (not even you!) I say you BOTH should have received the same suspension of one day.

    In my view, you were not treated fairly in respect to your presently understood equals (at the time). If that student had abused a teacher would that still be ok? Or would have the school been less understanding? Respect goes BOTH ways.

    Duck duck duck duck duck duck duck duck duck duck duck ..
    Say 'Goose' you retard! Since its correct, that would be ok :)

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  • lillypoppy

    I think one of the first things kids should be learning is how to deal with anger and stress

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  • dirtybirdy

    Before I got kicked our of my school, i recall there was a separate class for the special kids and when they were in a regular class they had an aid with them.

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  • Dot123

    I wouldn't give a shit if the person is slow or not if they started badmouthing and hitting me I would fight back. It's not our fault they're slow.

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    • That is what I was talking about. Why am I punished for the fact they are slow and I happened to be in ordinary classes at the time. That’s like punishing someone for doing good.

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      • Dot123

        Yeah, it's complete horse shit. It's just because they're slow.

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  • ToxicCrayons

    Where I live, there are special education programs in both primary and high school. However, when the retards get to grade 10, they are integrated into some normal classes. I could never tolerate disabled people. All I can remember is how much of a nuisance they were. I am sure everyone who went to school with me would agree.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Well, yes, I believe so. In my school, we had different types of classes for different aptitudes.

    We had AP, which was for the best studied and those that were willing to do a *shit* ton of extra work, they counted as college classes.
    Advanced, for the, well, advanced.
    Regular, for those of average learning speed (I was offered AP but I wasn't willing to do the work).
    Occupational Course of study, basically, for children who are not *retarded* per se, but are very close or mildly retarded. Not so much so that they needed to be in special ed but they couldn't handle a regular classroom environment either.
    And then you had Special Ed (Progressive Education Program) which had classes catering to various levels of "mental challenges" if you will.

    In addition, every child with special needs which had been put into regular classes had an aid with them that watched them at all times to ensure that this kind of shit didn't happen. Now some occupational students fell through the cracks because they didn't require constant supervision, but other than that, while the events that you listed could happen, the people bothering you would be average (or slightly below, in that magical border between average and retarded) but they wouldn't have a known special need.

    Honestly, your act is considered criminal. You did not use force until after she walked away. That's a legal standpoint, and you probably used more force than she did. Self-defense is defined as use of equal or lesser force in order to deter the attacker, in your case, the attacker walked away. While I do agree that, in an educational environment, the special needs (or violent little assholes in general) should be kept in a differing environment to keep from obstructing our educational experience, and that the counselor should not have placed the blame squarely on you, getting angry and jumping on someone's back and hitting them after the fact is not self-defense. It's Assault and Battery. You were both equally wrong.

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    • Aslo they put the slow kids and the severe retarded in the same class. They also toss in the trouble makers with the retards.

      They do not teach them anything as the goal is to babysit and the ones who are slightly slow know nothing when they are intergrated into the class.

      None of these schools are very good at intergrating either as they are hell bent on keeping them moronic yet pushing them into something they were never prepared for.

      I know becuase we had a kid who was slightly slow very highfuctioning intergrated into our class and siad she learned nothing our class was learning when she was moved in.

      Aslo anyone can be put in those classes and testing deos not determine what classes you get to take. It is simply the laws. Also at most the schools I been to the parents determine who gets to be in retarded and regulaur classes.

      If a mom says I want my child in retarded classes the teachers have to put them in. If they say take my child our they have to. This is regardless of how well the child is preforming and how advanced they are testing.

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        Sounds like your school system sucks. It's not entirely optional in ours.

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  • alv1592

    While I don't agree with violence since it doesn't solve anything, it was somewhat acceptable in your case because you hit her in self defense. I have nothing against slow people, they can't help being that way, but I wouldn't say it's an excuse to badmouth or attact someone for no reason. In schools where I live, there are special classes for mentally retarded students. But I don't know about anywhere else.

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    • Justsomejerk

      Its not self defense if you hit someone in the head as they are walking away.

      I do agree with you though OP, kids can't be expected to know how to deal with these situations. I'd have trouble in that situation now myself.

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    • It was an elective so all students are able be in those. Also mosr the kids They put in Those classes are not retarded but just to lazy to work so they get treated diffrent. In cases if fighting they blame child in reguluar classes in that case it was me. I think all kids need to take a class how to deal with retarded kids if they are going to treat the normal kids like monsters for not knowing how to handle it.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    You were mistreated. They should not favor student no matter how mentally retarded they are. Also your teacher should have sent the student away right after they threatened you. If a retarded person kills because they are mad does not excuse anything. Everyone should be held accountable for wrong actions. Not just the one who are higher functioning. Now if they some how perceived you a threat that is excusable.

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  • sega31098

    Just a question: Shouldn't the mentally handicapped go to a special school instead?

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  • myweirdself16

    I've always thought of the slower and mentally handicapped children as annoying, despite me being "slower" when I was younger. I also had a frightening experience with a retarded child when I was in middle school; the teacher that was his aid made him angry when she tried to get him to focus, so he attempted to choke her. He was the only kid in that class that was like that, and the rest of us were more or less normal.
    I had some other classes with autistic kids, and slow kids mixed in with normal children. I wish it hadn't been like that.

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  • poy

    aiming for the head was a bit too far, you could have pushed her off too but only go as far as she got not more and its better and reasonable if you did it while she was attacking you.

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  • imagirldealwithit123

    ok when i was in 5th grade i read at a 7th grade level but i dont test well cause i have ADHD so they put me in a retared class with retared people

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    • Another reason they need a class. If you are not slow and put with kids with severe retardation they are going to excpect you can deal with them and you might not be able.

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      • imagirldealwithit123

        ^_^ retaredation...hmm..im sooo going to use that..

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  • happy123

    i is scientistic

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  • VioletTrees

    There already are separate classes in most schools.

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  • FocoUS

    When I was in high school there was a week dedicated to teaching kids about the proper way to deal with the handi-capped. It was really useful, I thought all districts did it. Well, all should.

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    • No they do not all do that. Also I have had incidents beside this and I am always blamed as the bad guy for what I have done. In this case the teacher blamed me and wanted to have me put away. I find it wrong I would get such treatment for having regular classes.

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      • FocoUS

        They really should. Not just to the benefit of people that are called the "bad guy" but to the benefit of the handi-capped as well. If you really wanted your school to teach this you could probably make a formal complaint or petition. It's really not that hard to teach kids about this. The people that taught it in my school were all volunteers, they didn't cost a cent.

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        • Later It was proved I was not insane just creative and I was a extremly morbid child. I was also a tad OCD but I was not a danger but very shy. I stayed in ordinary classes but I was told like so many other times I was a monster. The fact that being slow says she can hurt others and it be ok I hated.

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        • Well I do not stir the pot. I had no right to talk out since I was labled as pyscho. If I did they might say we are going to send you to the asylum. So it was retard vs crazy I lost.

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  • UhhhOK

    I could be considered a slow person.
    I agree with yuo tho.
    I was in classes waiy too dificult for me and continued to fail with no one to help me. Ther should be seperate.

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    • Also no I do not think they should be separated and most of the classes they have they just shove the lazy kids into so its a really stupid class. I do however think they should teach all the none Severely retarded kids how to deal with a Slow child so we are not punished for defending ourselves. I mean if they are going to get special treatments we should at least be advised on how to deal with it.

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