Is it normal i thought they were talking to me?

I was sitting in a room, just me and this girl I don't know very well. She was sitting diagonally right 5m from me and she said whilst looking at me "Hey, how are you?", I would say "Fine", because I was 100% she was talking to me. It turns out in the end she had one of those earphone mic things. Throughout the whole time she was looking at me, she was laughing and talking. She said, "You know my math teacher, yeah?" and I nodded my head (but I thought it was strange that she said that, as we have the same math teacher), but straight after I nodded, she said "Why are you nodding your head? Butt out of my conversation.", and I was so embarrassed, and I really thought she was talking to me. She now thinks I am a weirdo, and I try and get into other peoples conversations :( ...That is SO embarrassing, and she is telling all her friends about me now. It didn't even look like she had earphones in, and still the whole damn time she was looking directly at me and giving body language as if she was talking me. I was responding and smiling the whole time as well. Should I be the one embarrassed, or her? Is it normal?

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Based on 55 votes (44 yes)
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  • JustCHELlin246

    Shrug it off. EVERYBODY does stuff like that (including your "friend"), and just because there was a mistake in communication doesn't mean its even either of your faults. You probably could both be justified. Random, weird stuff happens all the time, and sounds like she either doesnt understand your perspective of the event, or she is a drama-seeker very bored with her own life. YOU know you just thought she was talking to you, so its whatever. If its really a big deal and someone inquires about it, just tell them the truth and laugh it off. :))

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  • --Quinn--

    I've done that before You'll forget about it soon:D

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  • Wrest216

    Thats not weird..You cant tell if she is talking to you or to her headset. Common misconception. I usually do mouth "opps phone! sorry" and point to the phone as if i had one on me. This lets em know why you thought they were talking to you. SOunds like she was a little bit of a jerk if she was that close and tells you to butt of of her conversation.

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  • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat

    Wow talk about being a cool customer when it comes to the ladies. You give new meaning to the word "suave". Any more stories you can post where you made a horse's ass out of yourself?

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    • Anonymous1234567

      Wtf are you talking about?

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      • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat

        Next time try walking over to her and say this :

        YOU : You know what would look good on you sweetcheeks?
        Girl: No, what?
        YOU : ME !

        You can substitute honeybuns for sweetcheeks if you want as well.

        Or just walk right up to her and say something like,

        "I promise I am not some kind of creepy, stalker weirdo"

        Women love it when you tell them this right off the bat, puts their minds right at ease.

        Good luck.

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