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It took some time to train her, and she resisted it at first, but now she's trained like a dog. I have a dominant, controlling personality. I call her my slave, and convinced her she is beneath me. The best part is, she seems to have embraced her role.
Of course your gf does all your biddings... your right hand is easy to controll...
That kind of a question is this?? How many other women do you see running around calling their husband/boyfriend 'master'? What do her parents think about this? It;s is outrageous! And having a "dominant, controlling personality" is not a good excuse for anything! You have probably broken the poor girl's self esteem to actually get her to participate in this sick game.
What do her parents think? Who the hell cares. But I'll answer anyway. They don't know about it, we make it a point to keep it private.
The "poor girl" is playing the "sick game" by her own volition. In other words, happy and willing.
It really took you that long to reply to my comment?
In other words, because of your "dominant, controlling personality" she may be doing this because she feels as if she has no choice in the matter. How do you know this is by her own free will? How do you know she is happy?
And why did you even put up this question to ask if it is normal when you are going to sit here and argue with every single point people throw at you?
Because I'm pretty sure I could gauge if she was unhappy.
You're complaining about me taking long to respond to your comment while at the same time criticizing me for arguing with "every single person."
Do you know what by her own volition means? Am I using too big of words for you? Everyone has a choice.
I'm so angry, i am at a loss for words. You come onto this site looking for advise, get a whole bunch of people pissed, and argue what you are doing is right. How much more selfish and hard headed can you get? You are a prick and a selfish bastard and I think you need to get your tubes tied before you have children and pass on your stupidity genes.
it is not always this way. sometimes things need convincing to be pleasing to master. it is a slave and learning to submitting to master is a time to learn. example, put outside with cunt up and face in dirt is not enjoyable but may nessisary to slaves learning. master always right, slave obeys, doesn't get punishment. but it is not forced
True, he should have found someone will to submit, instead of breaking some girl who wasn't willing.
If she is honestly happy in her submissive role then I see nothing wrong with this. Just be careful... open communication in a BDSM relationship is of the utmost importance.
I was once in a very similar relationship gone wrong, he pushed too far and I let him abuse me because he had gotten inside my head. I came on here to ask if you were him but rescinded my original opinion after reading the comments, seems like a lot of people have misinterpreted or not bothered to read everything else you wrote.
Yes. I think that's fine. I'm a submissive girl and I would like a guy who wants me to call him master.
I guess if she doesn't mind but if that was me I'd tell you where to go.
have you ever thought that, the only way she could ever make you feel like a man is by pretending that you're her master haha..
4/10. way too obvious, even for this site, but people still called you sexist.
At least you can easily replace dog's.
Women take 9 months to hatch, and 18 yr's to be legal.
That is sickening . I hope she wakes up soon. To me what you said is not love but abuse.
I had a girlfriend like that but that was just the kind of relationship she wanted rather then something that was forced. I found it a bit of a turn on but a bit annoying. The way you put it sounds forced and a little weird. Though if your both happy I wouldn't judge.
really hate to say it but she doesn't care about your relationship. its just like a sexy game to her. I'm a girl who's like weirdly into that kind of role play but i wouldn't take it into my actual relationship because I'm not bored enough in my actual relationship. i love just having casual conversations with my boyfriend and don't need to make it a game all the time. it would be really fun though to have a guy to just play that game with all the time. but he'd have to not really mean anything to me
That is your interpretation of it. I sure hope you are aware not everyone thinks of or approaches a situation or scenario the same way. I am confident that she loves me considering this was something she had to warm up to in the first place and we now live together.
With a dog it takes about two weeks and some money to replace
But with a woman it takes roughly 9 months to be born, 18 years to be legal, 3 years to meet for the first time, $100 to date her, 1 year to marry her, 10 years to love her and 10 months to restart her life after she divorces you and takes half of your belongings
As long as you're doing it as a joke. If she's your slave for reals, then you're a mean person.
Not a joke, kind of like on-going role play. I find it difficult to see at as mean when she embraces it. She doesn't have to stay with me.
Hm, that's... odd, to say the least. Are you sure this is what she wants? Maybe she's like those guys who act like a slave to their girlfriend just so they can see her boobs once in a while...
However, in my opinion, you should try to go for a relationship that's based on love instead of on submission.
I think the relationship is based on love. It's almost like we switch roles because when she's submissive I do nice things in return. Compliments, gifts, do what she wants in the bedroom etc.
I consider it a fun way for a man and a woman to have a relationship.
That changes the situation entirely. It's important that you do stuff in return for her, I thought you didn't. Maybe you should've mentioned that earlier, since your message came across as if you're some tyrant who uses slave girls to pleasure yourself. (which explains all the hate comments you got)
hahahaha best troll story for a while. good job. great reaction you got too.
Thanks for the comments, even to those of you who believe I am trolling. I didn't expect my story to get much positive feedback, but then again I didn't expect to be called a troll.
This isn't an "I fucked my mother and two sisters" type of unusual, I wouldn't think.
Kind of weak, but some people are getting upset, so I guess a few troll-points awarded. Still, work harder next time. This was disappointing.
If I'm a troll here then I'm a troll in real life I suppose. I am not making this up. Do you think I'm the only dude in the world who likes to dominate women.
I guess... sometimes they get so attached they're willing to do what you want. I don't like "strong women" They annoy me, and in my honest opinion don't know they're place.
Ah, so you're being serious... to some degree. From what you write it seems you could be forgetting some important things about how Dominant/submissive relationships work.
Submission is a gift. We give to our Masters/Mistresses because they possess qualities that we do not, and we trust in their guidance. D/s relationships are about mutual trust and love, not the misguided notion that someone is genuinely "beneath" you. You get as much from her as she gets from you, ideally.
I don't really know why you, as someone who *claims* to be dominant, have such a fear of "strong women". Even a submissive can be a "strong woman". There's no need to act so threatened by them. From the way you write, it seems you dominate your girlfriend out of fear, rather than humble duty. Fear is the product of a weak mind.
You have the gift of dominance, man up and use it responsibly. Not every man out there has the chance to be doing what you're doing, so do it right. Otherwise you're disrespecting yourself and your partner. Keep her as your slave, teach her her place, show her your strength and love, but never see her as unworthy or inferior. If she is, what does that make you? If she is your slave, you should be PROUD of what you own. No self-respecting master owns inferior goods.
You sound like you have some experience in this department.
It also sounds like the only qualms you have with my relationship is that I say she is beneath me? Well, that is just a form of mind control, it's not like I tell her that regularly, I told her that's what I wanted before our relationship started, a woman who acts like she is beneath me.
I don't treat her badly, and I certainly don't hit. There is an obvious level of respect we have for eachother's willingness to play a fair role in our dominant/submissive relationship, that I make an effort not to abuse. I can't afford to abuse this power I have over her as it is not easy to find women this day and age who are willing participants to be submissive to a man in a relationship.
I never said I fear strong women, I just don't like them. I don't want to date them. It's not my cup of tea. In my world the female should always cater to the dominant males wants and needs and to seek approval for it in acts of kindness in return.
Besides, the sex is great.
Well perhaps given the brevity of the original question I misjudged the relationship between you and your girlfriend. I was interpreting the "beneath you" bit to mean that you felt she was somehow unworthy, and that's what didn't jive well with me. I like the idea that a Dom/me is proud of their sub, and should consider them above most others - after all, they earned the right to be your sub. From what you said above, elaborating on things, it seems your relationship with her is rather healthy. Open, truthful communication is important, and as you spoke with her about it beforehand, and seem like you'll keep an open ear throughout the relationship, that's... well, as much as any couple can hope for.
As for the strong women thing, generally when something bothers you enough to annoy you and cause you to dislike it, it's because there's a certain level of discomfort there. It's my guess that the discomfort comes from feeling that a strong woman undermines what you believe in, but I could be wrong. The main point I have is... if you are truly comfortable and secure in your dominance as a man, there's absolutely no reason for "strong women" to bother you in any way. Sure, they can be a "not your cup of tea" sort of thing, but indifference and dislike are what separates confidence and paranoia (using the more Greek definitions of such) when it comes to people with different ideals than us.
My apologies if what I said was taken out of context, or maybe I just plain misspoke, but I do appreciate her. Thanks for your comment.
I have no problem with strong women in general, just in dating. They're not for me. We just won't be compatible. I've experienced it enough times to know that. Two people who want to be totally dominant clash and creates lots of friction.